In this holiday-focused episode of Reframe This, Matt dives into the powerful role that holiday expectations play in shaping our emotional experience and overall mental health. He unpacks why the holidays often feel overwhelming—not because something is wrong with us, but because we’re carrying layers of spoken, unspoken, and inherited expectations that no human nervous system was designed to hold. From family traditions and pressure to “be happy,” to grief anniversaries, perfectionism, and financial strain, Matt explores how these expectations influence the way we think, feel, and relate during the season.He offers practical tools for navigating these pressures with clarity and compassion, including setting boundaries, redefining traditions, communicating needs openly, and creating a “bare minimum holiday plan” that protects peace instead of performance. Matt emphasizes that holiday exhaustion is not a personal failure—it’s accumulated pressure—and that we’re allowed to honor our capacity, rest, and show up authentically instead of perfectly.Throughout the episode, he reframes holiday stress as an opportunity to choose sustainability over expectation and gentleness over obligation, making space for a healthier, more grounded connection with ourselves and others.💡 Reframe of the Week“Holiday overwhelm isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s a sign of carrying expectations no human nervous system was meant to hold. When we choose clarity and compassion over performance, the holidays become more sustainable and far more meaningful.”🕊️ Spiritual ReflectionMatt closes with grounding reflections from Scripture that speak to being seen in our overwhelm and supported in our process:Psalm 139 — A reminder that we are fully seen, even in our holiday stress and emotional heaviness.Philippians 1:6 — “He who began a good work in you will carry it on…” We are in process, and God meets us in each step, not in perfection.These reflections invite us to offer ourselves the same compassion God offers us—especially during a season that often demands more than we have to give.If you’re navigating holiday stress and want support for your mental health, consider speaking with a licensed therapist. You can find a professional near you through Psychology Today’s Therapist Directory.For listeners living in Arizona:Matt’s practice, Dynamis Counseling, provides therapy services and support for individuals, couples, and families. Arizona residents can reach out to Dynamis Counseling to learn more or get matched with a therapist who fits their needs.

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