These leaks can shape your whole identity if you let them, but they can also be closed with the right mindset and habits.In the final part of our energy leaks series, we're tackling the hardest ones—the patterns so deeply embedded they feel like who you are. But here's the truth: perfectionism rooted in shame, resentment that poisons only you, and emotional reactivity that hands your power to everyone else are not your identity. They're leaks you can seal.Perfectionism isn't about high standards—it's about covering up feelings of inadequacy by chasing an unattainable goal. Whether you wear it as a badge of honor or disguise it as "high standards," you're exhausting yourself trying to avoid judgment instead of healing the underlying shame. Resentment feels like it punishes the other person, but as the saying goes, it's like taking poison and waiting for them to die. And emotional reactivity? That's victimhood in action—making your peace dependent on what everyone else does.The deep fix for all of these isn't surface-level boundary setting. It's taking responsibility for everything that happens for you, not to you. It's learning that adults can't be abandoned, only children can. It's understanding that most people are on their own path, not targeting you personally. When you reclaim your power through personal responsibility and stop taking things personally, you shift from powerless victimhood into agency and intentional decision-making.Key Topics:Perfectionism as shame-based behavior disguised as high standardsResentment as poison that only hurts the one carrying itEmotional reactivity and the victimhood stance that drains energyTaking responsibility for everything that happens "for you," not "to you"Learning to pause, stay in your lane, and respond with intention"Your energy is your most valuable resource. Guard it like it's priceless, because it is."Feeling overwhelmed because you're responsible for everything under the sun? Take the Energy Leaks Quiz to uncover what's really stealing your energy in just 2 minutes.Connect with Dasha:Website: coachingbydasha.comLinkedIn: Dasha Tcherniakovskaia

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