76. Boundary Setting for More Love, Not Less

11/05/2025 41 min

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In this episode, we’re flipping the script on boundaries. If you’ve ever felt like setting boundaries makes you mean, cold, or too much — or if you’ve used boundaries as a way to keep people out rather than let the right people in — this one’s for you.I’m sharing how I used to use boundaries as a defence mechanism — a way to protect myself from discomfort and avoid hard conversations. And how I’ve come to realise that real, healthy boundaries aren’t about pushing people away... they’re about opening your heart with clarity, not chaos.We dive into:What open-hearted boundaries actually are (and what they’re NOT)Why boundaries aren’t about controlling others — they’re about trusting yourselfHow to set boundaries without guilt, shame, or shutting downThe connection between people-pleasing and boundary avoidanceTangible tips to communicate your needs with love, not fearWhether you’re a recovering people-pleaser, someone afraid to rock the boat, or just ready to stop abandoning yourself — this episode will help you set boundaries that create more connection, not less.💛 Want support with this work?I offer 1:1 coaching for people ready to stop people-pleasing, start honouring their truth, and build real confidence.👉 Book a free 30-minute connection session here: https://tidycal.com/kathleenmindsetcoach/connect🎁 Free Resource Mentioned:Want access to my emotional processing masterclass — the one that’s helped so many people get unstuck and learn to feel again?→ DM me EMOTIONS on Instagram + your best email address or email me at [email protected] and I’ll send it your way.💭 Journal Prompt:What’s one moment recently where you abandoned your needs to keep the peace?What would a loving boundary have looked like instead?✨ If this episode resonated, share it with a friend or leave a quick review — it helps this little podcast reach more people who need it 💛

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