Listen "Why You Control And How To Let Go Of It w/ Joanna Kleinman EP 93"
Episode Synopsis
🎙️ Where my freaks at? Control Freaks that is. In this episode, we dive deep with psychologist and author Joanna Kleinman to unpack why that voice in your head is working harder than a barista during morning rush hour. Shanenn and Joanna talk about: How your inner critic is just like the mean girl at school when you were growing up and she's been messing with you since you lost your first tooth 🛡️ The Jerry Maguire "you complete me" line is such a bad representation of the way relationships should really work and your relationship expectations may be as older than that movie. Big red flag 🚩 How social media has become the Olympic Games of impossible standards (and why we keep competing) 🏅 Don't Miss Moments: "We're like starving dogs waiting for that bone of validation" - on why we stay in unhealthy relationships "We're dishwashers - I'm a Whirlpool, you're a GE, but we all run the same programs" - on universal human patterns Action Items from the Episode: Name your inner critic ... 😉Practice catching yourself in "control mode" Start asking "What evidence disproves this belief?" when your inner critic goes on a rantStart getting curious about your beliefs instead of judging themPractice being okay with the possibility of things not going "perfectly"Follow Joanna on her podcast "Dethroning Your Inner Critic" where she dives deeper into the MIND Method and helps women stop being their own worst critics and start being their own best advocates. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:20 Understanding the Inner Critic 01:58 Origins of the Inner Critic 06:47 Cultural and Social Influences 09:33 Control and Perfectionism 11:35 Healthy Relationships and Self-Worth 21:32 Practical Steps to Dethrone the Inner Critic 29:20 Conclusion and Podcast PromotionSchedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can help.Grab the 5 Must-Haves To Overcome Jealousy DisclaimerThe information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Top Self podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.
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