In this episode of Top Self, Shanenn breaks down why small moments in your relationship can trigger huge emotional reactions.If you’ve ever felt embarrassed by your reaction, overwhelmed by jealousy, or hijacked by anxiety over something that logically felt minor, this episode explains what’s really happening beneath the surface.Shanenn introduces the concept of emotional agility—the ability to feel deeply without losing yourself—and explains why trust, confidence, and security aren’t built by suppressing emotions, but by learning how to stay present with them. This episode offers practical tools to help you stop spiraling, rebuild self-trust, and respond instead of react Golden Episode Nuggets💎 Your reactions aren’t random—your nervous system is trying to protect you 💎 Feeling deeply is capacity, not a weakness 💎 Trust is built through experience, not reassurance 💎 Naming sensations instead of emotions creates emotional power 💎 Discomfort doesn’t mean danger—nothing has gone wrong 💎 Staying with a feeling builds confidence one moment at a timeKey Moments2:30 – A relatable story about reacting “bigger than the moment”4:20 – Why your body reacts before your brain can catch up7:45 – What emotional agility actually means (and what it’s not)9:00 – Why trust isn’t about your partner—it’s about you12:10 – The truth about “feeling too much”16:30 – Why resilience isn’t toughness or pushing through18:20 – One simple shift that gives you power over emotional spirals20:30 – Four practical ways to stop getting hijacked by your emotions24:20 – Reflection questions to build self-trust in real timeSchedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can help.Grab the 5 Must-Haves To Overcome Jealousy DisclaimerThe information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Top Self podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.

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