If you've ever thought "I'm too much," felt shame around your jealousy, or struggled with feeling "needy" in relationships, this episode will be a relief and a revelation. Shanenn sits down with Trevor Hansen, coach and founder of The Art of Healing, to dismantle the shame loop of anxious attachment and show how it can be transformed into self-trust and secure connection.Trevor shares his raw personal story—from toxic relationships and a broken jaw to leaving a high-powered career at Tesla—and the powerful tools he discovered to move from fear to security. This is a must-listen for anyone stuck in the cycle of over-functioning, people pleasing, or "proving" their worth in love.IN THIS EPISODE, YOU'LL LEARN:Why awareness alone won't heal your insecure attachmentHow childhood experiences can create a "love gap" that fuels jealousyWhat emotional reprogramming looks like in practiceWhy inner child work isn't woo-woo—it's essentialA powerful shift from controlling to compassionately curious in relationshipsGOLDEN NUGGETS:You’re not too much. It’s the behavior that needs support, not your worth.Anxious attachment is just a part of you—not all of you.You can turn your jealousy into a catalyst for deeper connection.Emotional healing > intellectual awareness.When you stop outsourcing your worth, you stop fearing abandonment.GUEST BIO: Trevor Hansen is a relationship coach and the founder of The Art of Healing. After navigating his own journey through anxious attachment and emotional wounding, he now helps individuals break the cycle of fear-based relationships and build secure emotional foundations. His Secure Self Club is transforming lives by helping clients go from insecure to grounded in just months.QUOTE OF THE EPISODE: "You're no longer a problem to be solved, but a person to be loved."PERFECT FOR LISTENERS WHO...Feel shame around their jealousy or emotional needsStruggle with anxious or insecure attachment stylesWant to stop overthinking and start feeling secure in loveAre tired of outsourcing their peace and self-worthCrave emotional safety, clarity, and confidence in their relationshipsLoved this episode? Be sure to leave a review and share how you're starting to show up for your inner child.Schedule your FREE, 30-minute Discovery Call to see how I can help.Grab the 5 Must-Haves To Overcome Jealousy DisclaimerThe information on this podcast or any platform affiliated with Top Self LLC, or the Top Self podcast is for informational and entertainment purposes only. No material associated with Top Self podcast is intended to be a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment, Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider with any questions you may have regarding your condition or treatment and before taking on or performing any of the activities or suggestions discussed on the podcast or website.

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