True leadership isn’t about carrying people—it’s about guiding them. In this episode, Episode 25 – How Helping Others Can Be What’s Draining You – How to Fix It, I explore the powerful shift from being a tugboat, constantly pulling people along, to becoming a lighthouse that illuminates the path. Leaders must have the energy to guide, not the exhaustion of forcing others to follow their way. There will never be a way for you to solve all the problems of those around you, and by trying to do so, you unintentionally take away part of their power. When you step in to fix things, you rob them of the opportunity to develop resilience, resourcefulness, and the confidence that comes from solving challenges on their own. True leadership is about empowerment, not control. I explore why enabling others can drain you. Constantly trying to push, pull, or convince someone to move in a certain direction is exhausting—not just for you, but for them. Growth has to come from within, and when you try to do things for others, they will never fully learn to rise to their potential. Leadership is about holding space, offering guidance, and trusting the process. Whether it’s through mentorship, emotional support, or even financial help, the key is to release attachment to the outcome. When you give, you must do so without trying to control what happens next. Only then can you lead in a way that is sustainable, inspiring, and truly transformational. Tune in to learn how to lead with strength, wisdom, and sustainability—so you can inspire others without burning out in the Ultimate 180. Host Kristina Walker brings to you The Ultimate 180, a transformative approach to breaking free from the mental shackles keeping you stuck. This isn’t about adding more to your already packed schedule; it’s about rewiring your mindset to reclaim your freedom and joy.     Discover how small, actionable changes can help you let go of exhaustion, fear, and overwhelm and allow you to embrace a life filled with energy, purpose, and fulfillment. The shift is monumental, and the best part? It’s achievable.     Your life is worth it—don’t wait to start living fully. Tune in and take the first step toward your Ultimate 180!     Join my VIP Group at  https://ultimate180.com/contact/  Make sure to leave us a review on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ultimate-180/id1742888528  Make sure to leave us a review on Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/39BZGcYdck7YzhTFBhjP6E  Connect with Kristina today:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourultimate180/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristina-walker-ultimate180/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ultimate180VIP  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@theultimate180  Work With Kristina: https://ultimate180.com/

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