How to Identify and Transform Self-Defeating Relationship PatternsAre you tired of playing the same old roles in your relationships? In this insightful episode, we explore the powerful, yet often self-defeating, concept of the victim triangle, which we also refer to as PVR. Many of us fall into patterns of thinking and relating to others that lead to blame, guilt, defensiveness, and a cycle of persecuting, victimizing, and rescuing.Drawing on Victor Frankl's powerful quote, "That which does not kill me makes me stronger," we delve into how these learned patterns can keep us stuck, often originating from family dynamics where blame and guilt were prevalent. You might find yourself playing the persecutor, victim, or rescuer—or even all three, sometimes even to yourself. Bottling up anger, for example, can lead to more violent expressions later, perpetuating these destructive cycles.The good news? You don't have to play this game anymore! This episode introduces offers practical strategies to step outside of these roles. Learn about the transformative power of mindfulness in recognizing these patterns as they occur, and avoiding your automatic reactions. We'll also discuss "PVR breakout skills" such as:Pausing and taking a breath before reactingStepping outside of yourself Non-judgmentalnessCompassion for others and selfCommunicating emotions more clearly and effectivelySetting healthy boundariesDiscover how practicing these skills can lead to vast differences in your relationships in just a few months. Tune in to learn how to identify these patterns and actively choose a path toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.How to train your brain. [email protected]✨ Thanks for listening to The Potent Mind.🎧 Subscribe for weekly insights on mindfulness, neuroplasticity, and conscious living.🌐 Learn more and access free resources at www.thepotentmind.com🧠 Created by Dr. Jerry Gelbart | © 2025 All rights reserved

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