S3E7. How I’ve Been Standing in My Own Way and Blocking My Desires

24/09/2025 49 min

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In this episode, I’m opening up about the very real ways I’ve been sabotaging the things I’ve always said I wanted. From love to peace to alignment, I’ve noticed how often I find fault, question, or push away the very opportunities I’ve been calling in.I also talk about the trap of getting caught up in “the shoulds”, who I think I should be, what my life should look like, how I should be further ahead. Add in the weight of comparison, and it’s no surprise I’ve been ruining my own peace and blocking my desires without even realising it.I share my personal journey of recognising these patterns,How control, fear, and self-sabotage were keeping me stuck, The lessons I’m learning about surrendering, trusting the process, and finally letting go.This episode is for you if you’ve ever:Asked for something, only to resist it when it shows upFelt like you were protecting your peace, but realised you were actually blocking itStruggled with comparison or feeling trapped by “shoulds”Wondered if you’re standing in your own wayMy hope is that by sharing my struggles with sabotage, comparison, and surrender, you’ll feel less alone in your own journey, and inspired to soften, trust, and allow what you truly desire to come in.You can find the eclipse workshop I did by Chris Corsini HEREFollow on social media for updates and additional resources:→ Follow Jessica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicahayescoaching/→ Check out the website and my offerings: https://www.jessicahayes.com/We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Reach out to us and tag @jessicahayescoaching on social media or email us at [email protected] you for listening!Let’s get into it! 🎙✨

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