Listen "S3E9. Everyone Wants a Village, But Not Everyone Wants to Be a Villager: When ‘Protecting Your Peace’ Becomes the Problem."
Episode Synopsis
In this final episode before I step away for maternity leave, I want to leave you with something that’s been sitting on my heart, the truth about community, connection, and the modern obsession with “protecting your peace.”We live in a world that celebrates independence, self-care, and boundaries, all important things. But somewhere along the way, the “self, self, self” narrative began to isolate us. We say we want a village, but many of us struggle to actually be villagers. People struggle to show up, serve, and stay connected when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient.In this conversation, we’ll explore:💭 Why everyone craves a village but few want the responsibility that comes with it💭 How the “protect your peace” movement can unintentionally lead to loneliness and disconnection💭 The difference between healthy boundaries and emotional walls💭 What it really takes to build authentic support💭 How to balance your own needs while still being part of something bigger than yourself💭 How to stop comparing the people in your life and start seeing everyone’s uniqueness.As I prepare to welcome my baby and step into my own season of needing my village, this episode is both a reflection and a gentle reminder…Real community asks for our presence, not just our preferences. Sometimes peace isn’t found in pulling away, it’s found in showing up.Follow on social media for updates and additional resources:→ Follow Jessica on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicahayescoaching/→ Check out the website and my offerings: https://www.jessicahayes.com/We’d love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Reach out to us and tag @jessicahayescoaching on social media or email us at [email protected] you for listening!Let’s get into it! 🎙✨
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