69: 6 Signs You Need to See A Couples Therapist

21/10/2025 8 min
69: 6 Signs You Need to See A Couples Therapist

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Send us a textEpisode Summary: In this episode, Jason Polk, a couples therapist with over 10 years of experience, shares the six key signs that indicate it might be time to seek couples therapy. He explains why seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness, and offers practical examples and personal insights.Six Signs It's Time for Couples Therapy:Constant Fighting: Recurring arguments over both small and big issues, often with deeper cycles beneath the surface.Constant Avoidance: Lack of communication and emotional distance, which can be more damaging than fighting.Deep Resentment & Contempt: Sharing resentment without boundaries, leading to defensiveness and a cycle of blame.Mistrust: Persistent uneasiness, anxiety, or infidelity that undermines trust in the relationship.Lack of Connection: Not making time to connect, which can amplify annoyances and distance.Inability to Repair After Conflict: Struggling to reconnect or be vulnerable after disagreements.Key Takeaways:Couples therapy is a proactive step toward a healthier relationship.Repairing after conflict and maintaining connection are essential skills.Even therapists benefit from couples therapy!Mentioned in This Episode:Episode 66: More on repairing after conflictPersonal stories and examples from Jason’s own relationshipIf you recognize any of these signs in your relationship, consider contacting a couples therapist. Remember, seeking help is a sign of hope and commitment to growth.Couples Therapy in ColoradoThanks for listening!For more episodes and resources, subscribe to the podcast and follow Jason Polk for ongoing insights into relationships.