What does it really mean to be the “perfect Indian girl”? And what happens when you decide you no longer want to carry the weight of that label?In this powerful episode, host Payal Beri sits down with Tracy, better known as The Bad Indian Therapist, for a deeply personal and paradigm-shifting conversation that challenges the cultural expectations placed on South Asian women. From generational shame and toxic guilt to navigating cultural identity, therapy taboos, and boundaries, this is a must-listen for anyone who’s ever felt torn between heritage and authenticity.Tracy shares how her unconventional approach to therapy has helped South Asian women break free from the pressure to be the perfect daughter, wife, or mother — and what it means to finally take up space without guilt.In This Episode, You’ll Discover:Why so many South Asian women avoid culturally similar therapists — and what that revealsThe myth of the "perfect Indian girl" and its emotional costHow guilt is culturally weaponized, and how to stop it from running your lifeWhat boundaries really are (hint: not a Western concept!)How to stop tone-policing yourself when communicating needsReframing parental pedestal syndrome — and making peace with your identityWhether you’re part of the diaspora or just curious about the intersection of culture and healing, this episode will leave you thinking, reflecting, and (hopefully) reclaiming yourself.Links & Resources:More from Tracy:https://thebadindiantherapist.comInstagram: Tracy Vadakumchery (@thebadindiantherapist)TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thebadindiantherapist?lang=en Connect with Dr. Payal BeriWebsite: www.payalberi.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.payalberi/ Subscribe to the newsletter for more transformational conversationsChapters: 00:00 Introduction: The Pressure of Perfection 00:21 Meet Tracy: The Bad Indian Therapist 02:43 Tracy's Journey into Therapy 07:49 Cultural Competency in Therapy 10:58 Navigating Identity and Belonging 17:59 The Evolution of Culture and Identity 21:28 Releasing the Perfect Indian Girl Identity 28:30 Effective Communication vs. Tone Policing 28:49 Direct Communication in Therapy 31:20 Cultural Expectations and Outcome-Driven Mindsets 31:53 Materialism and Status in Indian Culture 32:53 White Supremacy Culture in Indian Society 37:30 Therapists and the Fear of Judgment 42:07 Boundaries in Indian Families 49:51 Empathy and Parental Relationships 50:44 The Myth of the Perfect Indian Girl 51:50 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsThis podcast is produced by MicMoguls.com

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