Dave and Jen hit the halfway point of their first season and reflect on where they expected to be versus where they actually are in their Spanish journey. What started as a hopeful transition period has instead become a series of unexpected challenges - from stolen bikes and broken computers to visa complications and natural disasters disrupting their kids' activities.
But through their Spanish language lessons, they discover a powerful metaphor in the distinction between "es" (to be, in essence) and "esta" (to be, in a temporary state) that helps them reframe their challenges. The episode explores how our perspective on whether something is permanent or temporary can dramatically impact how we navigate difficulties in relationships and life transitions.
Together, they unpack how this simple grammatical lesson has given them new tools for communication and partnership, showing how even our struggles can become opportunities for deeper understanding. For anyone facing unexpected challenges or trying to bridge different perspectives in their relationships, this episode offers practical insights on the power of reframing our experiences.

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