Episode 8: The Art of Clearing - Having Hard Conversations That Matter

27/11/2024 39 min

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Episode Synopsis

After experiencing an unexpected disappearance from their children's football manager in Spain, Dave and Jen explore the art of "clearings" - intentional conversations designed to reset and strengthen relationships.
They share their framework for preparing and conducting these crucial conversations, from identifying pain points to distinguishing between character and behavior. The episode offers practical insights on how to initiate difficult discussions without pushing people into defensive positions, while honoring both facts and feelings.
Drawing from their own relationship dynamics, they discuss common obstacles like people-pleasing tendencies and anxiety around confrontation.
Dave coaches Jen through her fears about initiating hard conversations, demonstrating in real-time how couples can support each other's growth. This episode provides valuable tools for anyone looking to transform potential conflict into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding.

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