Where Sexual Intimacy and Emotional Intimacy Meet With Dr. Sadaf Lodhi

08/06/2023 59 min
Where Sexual Intimacy and Emotional Intimacy Meet With Dr. Sadaf Lodhi

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Sexual health is still taboo in many circles. Even for physicians. Many of us didn’t get enough sexual education when we were studying. Surprisingly, this also applies to OBGYNs. This is the reason why today’s guest, Dr Sadaf Lodhi, decided to become a sexual coach. She noticed a massive gap in her knowledge and took the matter into her own hands. Dr Sadaf Lodhi is a board-certified OBGYN and executive coach for women based in New York. She graduated from the University of Michigan with honors, receiving a Bachelor of Science in Biochemistry. Afterwards, she acquired her Doctorate in Osteopathic Medicine at Michigan State University. Then she completed her residency in gynecology and obstetrics in Michigan.She earned her life and executive coach certification from Rutgers University and is now a sex counselor and educator. As a practicing OBGYN in New York for over 20 years, her mission has always been to empower and educate women. Most recently, she opened up a telehealth practice serving patients in New York and Michigan for sexual and menopausal health. Dr Sadaf Lodhi helps women with sexual confidence through coaching so that they can find pleasure in their relationships. She believes that all women, regardless of their backgrounds, have the potential to live life to its fullest.What we discuss in this episode:The reason why did Dr Sadaf Lodhi become a sex coach The explanation of the sexual response cycleThe definition of “good enough sex”  What you’ll learn from it:How to develop a more sex-positive mindsetHow to bridge the gap between sexual and emotional intimacyHow to spice things up in a relationship that feels stale  How to activate your sexual desire when your plate is full of obligations I learn so much from this conversation. I hope you enjoy it and learn as much as I did.   Thinking of you, KavethaPS- Everybody deserves to feel loved. You too. So if you want to become a vessel for love and nourish fulfilling relationships, I have something for you. Heal Your Relationships is a program I designed explicitly for women. HYR provides evidence-based tools, training, and a community to build an unshakeable foundation and rock-solid connections.In this 8-week program, you will get the HYR™ Framework and Tools and weekly calls with certified coaches in a group environment and privately. Besides, you won’t be by yourself on this journey. A community of women will have your back every step of the way.Do you want to learn more? Book a call with me: https://healyourrelationships.com/heal-your-relationships/In This Episode:00:00 Welcome back to another episode of Emotional Mastery01:07 Introducing Dr Sadaf Lodhi 03:48 How did Dr Sadaf Lodhi get into coaching? 06:53 When did Dr Sadaf Lodhi decide to become a coach?  07:37 The discomfort associated with talking about sex 08:49 How to develop a more sex-positive mindset? 10:48 Some of the most common sex-negative thoughts 12:01 How to bridge the gap between sexual and emotional intimacy?15:19 How to spice things up in a relationship that feels stale? 18:07 People who feel uncomfortable scheduling dates with their partner  21:35 Explanation of the...