We often talk about hope as something beautiful — a light that helps us keep going when things are hard.Yet there’s a moment when hope shifts from fuel to delay, and that same light becomes a flashlight we point away from what needs our attention.We keep hoping they’ll change. That work will calm down. That time will fix it.We keep waiting, praying, manifesting…Days turn into months, and our nervous system learns avoidance disguised as optimism.That’s when hope stops healing — and starts holding us in place.The truth is, a lot of times we use hope as a way to avoid responsibility — hoping someone else will change, that things will magically get better, or that time alone will heal.That’s what I call toxic hope.And toxic hope is one of the biggest reasons for suffering in this world.In this week’s episode of Heal Your Relationships, I’m unpacking what happens when hope turns from a force of healing into a form of denial — and how to step into what I call the messy middle:the real, uncomfortable, deeply human space where true healing begins.You’ll hear:The subtle difference between healthy hope and toxic hopeHow avoidance and fear disguise themselves as faithWhat “the messy middle” actually looks like — and why it’s where transformation really happensA personal story from my own family that changed how I see hope foreverIf you’ve been waiting for a sign to stop waiting — this is it.Timestamps:00:00 Behind the scenes: creation mode and the heart behind this work03:07 What “toxic hope” really means (and why it keeps us suffering)04:15 The danger of waiting for someone else to save you06:12 A personal story: my father’s passing and the lesson of denial09:05 How toxic hope shows up in everyday life12:22 A client story about addiction, fear, and postponing the truth16:03 Toxic hope in relationships — avoiding hard conversations19:05 You are the answer you’ve been waiting forOh—and if you have something you're navigating and would love my take on it... You can submit a question or situation for a future episode right here (totally anonymous!):Submit your questionP.S. Love the podcast? Reviews help us spread these life-changing tools far and wide.  If you leave a 5-star review and submit a screenshot here, I’ll send you my Rapid Relationship Repair mini-course—a short but powerful set of tools to reduce conflict and improve connection immediately.FREE tools:Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-NewsletterNeed more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun

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