The 6 Phases of Healing From the Past

30/10/2025 21 min
The 6 Phases of Healing From the Past

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If you’ve ever wondered why healing can feel so hard—why it sometimes feels like one step forward and two steps back—you’re not alone.For a long time, I thought I could heal by reading enough books, journaling more, or simply “being strong.” I believed that if I just worked hard enough on myself, I could finally move on from the past.But the truth is… you cannot heal alone. None of us can.Healing is not a straight line—it’s a journey that unfolds in six essential phases.Each one asks something different of us: courage, surrender, curiosity, community, embodiment, and eventually, reinvention.And when we begin to see where we are in that journey, everything starts to make sense.In this week’s episode of Heal Your Relationships, I’m walking you through:What each of these six phases looks likeWhy we get “stuck” in certain stages (and how to move through them)Why true healing requires community and belongingHow to make your healing journey a priority—without suffering through itThese six phases changed the way I see my own past, my relationships, and even my purpose—and I hope they’ll do the same for you.Timestamps:0:00 Why healing feels so hard — and why you can’t do it alone04:44 Phase 1: The emotionally reactive stage (and the moment that sparks change)07:28 Phase 2: Gathering information — why learning is only the beginning09:46 Phase 3: Finding community and belonging — the real key to lasting change14:04 Phase 4: Embodied healing — when your nervous system finally feels safe15:32 Phase 5: Practicing your true self in real life17:19 Phase 6: Reinvention — living as your healed, whole self19:22 Reflection prompts to help you see where you are in your own healing journeyOh—and if you have something you're navigating and would love my take on it...  🗣️ You can submit a question or situation for a future episode right here (totally anonymous!):  👉Submit your questionP.S. Love the podcast? Reviews help us spread these life-changing tools far and wide. If you leave a 5-star review and submit a screenshot here, I’ll send you my Rapid Relationship Repair mini-course—a short but powerful set of tools to reduce conflict and improve connection immediately.FREE tools:Get FREE access to my ‘Conflict Cure’ mini-course, plus weekly relationship tools delivered straight to your inbox —> https://bit.ly/RelationalIQ-NewsletterNeed more customized support? Apply for a Relationship Breakthrough Call with Dr. Kavetha Sun —> https://go.oncehub.com/BreakthroughCallwithDrKavethaSun