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Episode Synopsis
You are that beautiful, high-achieving godly woman healing from past pain, waiting for love, or rebuilding your heart — these prayers are for you.
Let’s pray together — gently, honestly, and anchored in God’s Word.
Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women.
Transcript is below the Page.
Thank You! For listening.
I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.
Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together
Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.
Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.
WHAT NEXT?
✅ Download my free resources for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.
✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. E-book and Paper back
📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: Book Here
✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.
✅ Join my private face book group
✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. https://marveladeyemi.com.au/
✅ Send me an email
📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
Prayer to Heal Family of Origin Wounds
Heavenly Father,
I bring You the pain from my past. The places where I felt unseen, unheard, or unloved — I lay them at Your feet.
Your Word says in Jeremiah 30:17,
"I will restore health to you and heal you of your wounds," declares the Lord.
So I trust You, God — restore the broken parts of me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Prayer to Release Past Hurt & Trauma
Lord,
I’m tired of carrying this pain. I lay down the bitterness, the resentment, and every memory that still hurts. Help me forgive — even when it’s hard.
Your Word says in Psalm 147:3,
"You heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds."
Heal me, Lord — bind me back together with Your love. Amen.
Prayer for the Inner Child
Father,
Speak tenderly to the little girl inside me — the part of me that still feels afraid, alone, or not good enough.
In Psalm 23:3, Your Word says,
"You restore my soul. You lead me beside still waters. You are my Shepherd."
So I rest in Your arms. Hold the young me — and tell her she is safe now. Amen.
Prayer to Overcome Self-Doubt
God,
Silence every voice that says I’m not enough. Let Your truth be louder than the lies I’ve believed.
Your Word says in Psalm 139:14,
"I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
I receive that truth into my heart today. Amen.
Prayer for Freedom from People-Pleasing
Lord,
I don’t want to keep living for the approval of others. Set me free from the need to be liked, and help me focus on pleasing You.
As it says in Galatians 1:10,
"If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ."
Give me courage to set boundaries with love and wisdom. Amen.
PART 2: Prayers for Love & Healthy Relationships
Prayer for a Godly Spouse
Father,
I pray for a partner who puts You first — a man of integrity, kindness, and faith.
Your Word says in Matthew 6:33,
"Seek first the Kingdom of God… and all these things will be added to you."
So I seek You — and trust You with the rest. Amen.
Prayer for Emotional Safety
God,
I long for a love that is patient and kind, not confusing or painful. I want love that reflects Yours.
Your Word in 1 Corinthians 13:4 reminds us,
"Love is patient, love is kind… it keeps no record of wrongs."
That’s the kind of love I wait for — nothing less. Amen.
Prayer for Discernment
Lord,
Help me see clearly. Don’t let loneliness cloud my judgment. Give me wisdom to know what’s from You — and what’s not.
Your Word says in James 1:5,
"If anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, and it will be given generously."
So I ask You now — guide my heart and my steps. Amen.
Prayer for Patience While Waiting
Father,
It’s hard to wait. But I know You’re not withholding — You’re preparing. Strengthen me while I wait.
In Isaiah 40:31, Your Word promises,
"Those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength… they will walk and not grow weary."
Help me wait in peace, not panic. Amen.
Prayer for Protection from Red Flags
Lord,
If it’s not from You — let it fall apart. Open my eyes to see every red flag and close the door to anything that’s not aligned with my healing.
Your Word warns in 1 Peter 5:8,
"Be alert… for your enemy prowls like a lion, seeking someone to devour."
Protect me. I trust Your wisdom over my emotions. Amen.
PART 3: Preparing Your Heart for Love
Prayer to Heal Before Love
God,
Before I pray for a husband, heal the part of me that calls anxiety “chemistry”…
Heal the part of me that thinks love must hurt.
Heal the part of me that believes I’m too broken to be chosen.
As You said in Romans 12:2,
"Be transformed by the renewing of your mind… then you will know what is good, pleasing and perfect."
I invite You to renew me from the inside out. Amen.
Prayer for Wholeness in Singleness
Father,
Help me see that I am already whole — even without a ring, even without a partner. You are my source.
Your Word in Philippians 4:19 says,
"My God will supply all your needs."
So I rest in that promise today. Amen.
Prayer to Walk in Identity
God,
Let me stop chasing what I think I need… and start walking boldly in who I already am.
You say in Psalm 34:5,
"Those who look to You are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame."
So today, I lift my eyes — and walk in my worth. Amen.
Closing Blessing
Lord,
Every woman and man listening today — bless them with clarity, courage, and comfort.
Where there has been pain, bring healing.
Where there’s confusion, bring peace.
Where there’s waiting, fill the space with purpose.
And as Your Word says in Numbers 6:24–26,
"May the Lord bless you and keep you; may His face shine upon you and give you peace."
Amen.
#DatingAdvice, #RelationshipHealing, #TraumaHealing, #SelfWorth, #AnxietyRelief, #SpiritualGrowth, #HealthyRelationships, #FaithAndDating, #ChristianDating, #HealingJourney, #PersonalGrowth, #LoveYourself, #BreakTheCycle, #InnerHealing, #PurposeDrivenLife, #MindsetShift, #TherapistTips, #DatingTips, #AttachmentStyles, #ChildhoodTrauma, #CodependencyRecovery, #SelfLove, #Empowerment, #WellnessJourney, #MentalHealthMatters, #FindingLove, #ManifestLove, #HealthyBoundaries, #DivineTiming, #GodlyRelationships, #RelationshipGoals, #SinglesMinistry, #WaitingForLove
Let’s pray together — gently, honestly, and anchored in God’s Word.
Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women.
Transcript is below the Page.
Thank You! For listening.
I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.
Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together
Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.
Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.
WHAT NEXT?
✅ Download my free resources for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.
✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. E-book and Paper back
📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: Book Here
✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.
✅ Join my private face book group
✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. https://marveladeyemi.com.au/
✅ Send me an email
📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
Prayer to Heal Family of Origin Wounds
Heavenly Father,
I bring You the pain from my past. The places where I felt unseen, unheard, or unloved — I lay them at Your feet.
Your Word says in Jeremiah 30:17,
"I will restore health to you and heal you of your wounds," declares the Lord.
So I trust You, God — restore the broken parts of me. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Prayer to Release Past Hurt & Trauma
Lord,
I’m tired of carrying this pain. I lay down the bitterness, the resentment, and every memory that still hurts. Help me forgive — even when it’s hard.
Your Word says in Psalm 147:3,
"You heal the brokenhearted and bind up their wounds."
Heal me, Lord — bind me back together with Your love. Amen.
Prayer for the Inner Child
Father,
Speak tenderly to the little girl inside me — the part of me that still feels afraid, alone, or not good enough.
In Psalm 23:3, Your Word says,
"You restore my soul. You lead me beside still waters. You are my Shepherd."
So I rest in Your arms. Hold the young me — and tell her she is safe now. Amen.
Prayer to Overcome Self-Doubt
God,
Silence every voice that says I’m not enough. Let Your truth be louder than the lies I’ve believed.
Your Word says in Psalm 139:14,
"I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Your works are wonderful, I know that full well."
I receive that truth into my heart today. Amen.
Prayer for Freedom from People-Pleasing
Lord,
I don’t want to keep living for the approval of others. Set me free from the need to be liked, and help me focus on pleasing You.
As it says in Galatians 1:10,
"If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ."
Give me courage to set boundaries with love and wisdom. Amen.
PART 2: Prayers for Love & Healthy Relationships
Prayer for a Godly Spouse
Father,
I pray for a partner who puts You first — a man of integrity, kindness, and faith.
Your Word says in Matthew 6:33,
"Seek first the Kingdom of God… and all these things will be added to you."
So I seek You — and trust You with the rest. Amen.
Prayer for Emotional Safety
God,
I long for a love that is patient and kind, not confusing or painful. I want love that reflects Yours.
Your Word in 1 Corinthians 13:4 reminds us,
"Love is patient, love is kind… it keeps no record of wrongs."
That’s the kind of love I wait for — nothing less. Amen.
Prayer for Discernment
Lord,
Help me see clearly. Don’t let loneliness cloud my judgment. Give me wisdom to know what’s from You — and what’s not.
Your Word says in James 1:5,
"If anyone lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, and it will be given generously."
So I ask You now — guide my heart and my steps. Amen.
Prayer for Patience While Waiting
Father,
It’s hard to wait. But I know You’re not withholding — You’re preparing. Strengthen me while I wait.
In Isaiah 40:31, Your Word promises,
"Those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength… they will walk and not grow weary."
Help me wait in peace, not panic. Amen.
Prayer for Protection from Red Flags
Lord,
If it’s not from You — let it fall apart. Open my eyes to see every red flag and close the door to anything that’s not aligned with my healing.
Your Word warns in 1 Peter 5:8,
"Be alert… for your enemy prowls like a lion, seeking someone to devour."
Protect me. I trust Your wisdom over my emotions. Amen.
PART 3: Preparing Your Heart for Love
Prayer to Heal Before Love
God,
Before I pray for a husband, heal the part of me that calls anxiety “chemistry”…
Heal the part of me that thinks love must hurt.
Heal the part of me that believes I’m too broken to be chosen.
As You said in Romans 12:2,
"Be transformed by the renewing of your mind… then you will know what is good, pleasing and perfect."
I invite You to renew me from the inside out. Amen.
Prayer for Wholeness in Singleness
Father,
Help me see that I am already whole — even without a ring, even without a partner. You are my source.
Your Word in Philippians 4:19 says,
"My God will supply all your needs."
So I rest in that promise today. Amen.
Prayer to Walk in Identity
God,
Let me stop chasing what I think I need… and start walking boldly in who I already am.
You say in Psalm 34:5,
"Those who look to You are radiant; their faces are never covered with shame."
So today, I lift my eyes — and walk in my worth. Amen.
Closing Blessing
Lord,
Every woman and man listening today — bless them with clarity, courage, and comfort.
Where there has been pain, bring healing.
Where there’s confusion, bring peace.
Where there’s waiting, fill the space with purpose.
And as Your Word says in Numbers 6:24–26,
"May the Lord bless you and keep you; may His face shine upon you and give you peace."
Amen.
#DatingAdvice, #RelationshipHealing, #TraumaHealing, #SelfWorth, #AnxietyRelief, #SpiritualGrowth, #HealthyRelationships, #FaithAndDating, #ChristianDating, #HealingJourney, #PersonalGrowth, #LoveYourself, #BreakTheCycle, #InnerHealing, #PurposeDrivenLife, #MindsetShift, #TherapistTips, #DatingTips, #AttachmentStyles, #ChildhoodTrauma, #CodependencyRecovery, #SelfLove, #Empowerment, #WellnessJourney, #MentalHealthMatters, #FindingLove, #ManifestLove, #HealthyBoundaries, #DivineTiming, #GodlyRelationships, #RelationshipGoals, #SinglesMinistry, #WaitingForLove
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