Silence isn’t always golden—especially in relationships. If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of the silent treatment, you know it doesn’t feel like space. It feels like rejection, punishment, or emotional exile. Even when it’s not meant to cause harm, the impact can be devastating.In this episode, we unpack the nervous system’s response to silence, why shutdowns are often misunderstood as maturity, and how couples can learn to take space without rupturing connection. Whether you're the one who goes quiet or the one who panics in the quiet, this conversation will help you feel seen—and give you language to do it differently.🔍 What We’ll Cover:Why silence often feels more painful than yellingHow your nervous system reacts to the absence of connectionThe difference between a regulated pause and a punishing shutdownWhat to say before you say nothing—one sentence that makes all the differenceHow to self-anchor when you’re on the receiving end of a silent spiral✨ Key Insight:Your nervous system doesn’t wait for clarification—it reacts to absence. And disconnection without consent doesn’t feel like maturity. It feels like abandonment.🛠 Tools + Takeaways:A simple sentence to turn a shutdown into a pauseA nervous system reframe for both sides of the silence dynamicHow to leave the light on—even when you need space🔁 Listener Reflection:If your go-to is silence, ask:Is this helping us—or just protecting me?And if you’re on the receiving end, try:This feels like disconnection, but I don’t have to fill in the blanks with shame.🔗 Related Links:💡 Read the blog version of this episode✉️ Join my weekly newsletter, Love & Life, for insights like this in your inboxConnect with me for more support: www.drrachelorleck.com

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