IntroGet ready to ditch those bubble baths and face masks because we’re diving headfirst into the real deal of self-care! In this episode, I’m busting the myth that self-care is all about indulgence and pampering – spoiler alert: it’s not! Real self-care is often about having those tough conversations, setting boundaries that might make people squirm, and saying no when you really want to say yes. We’ll chat about how it’s the nitty-gritty, uncomfortable stuff that transforms you, not just a cheeky spa day. So grab your cuppa, kick back, and let’s explore how to truly care for ourselves in a way that actually serves our future happiness!Summary:What if everything you've been told about self-care is actually keeping you stuck? In this powerful Monday Myth Busting episode, Heather dismantles the wellness industry's most damaging myth—that self-care is about bubble baths, face masks, and spa days. Through raw personal stories (including caring for her parents and pulling off an intensive AI sprint weekend while managing a full life), she reveals what real self-care actually looks like: the uncomfortable conversations, the brutal boundary-setting, and the moment-by-moment internal dialogue work that nobody wants to talk about.What's Inside:Why the wellness industry's version of self-care is potentially harmfulHow Heather managed an intensive 3pm-midnight AI sprint both days while doing housework, writing her newsletter, and starting appointments at 9am Monday—without burning outThe brutal truth she learned while caring for parents running on absolute emptyHow NLP training taught her to reframe the relentless internal voice saying "I can't do this"Why standing in the garden for five minutes saved her more than any spa day couldThe raincoat metaphor that's better than the overused oxygen mask analogyThree Game-Changing Myth Busters:Self-Care Feels Good → Reality: Real self-care often feels uncomfortable (it's discipline disguised as kindness to your future self)Self-Care Is Indulgence → Reality: It's strategic energy management so you can actually help peopleSelf-Care Is Selfish → Reality: It protects your capacity to serve—it's not about you, it's about everyone you're meant to helpChapters:00:14 - The Reality of Self Care02:01 - The Real Work of Self Care06:25 - Understanding Real Self Care08:10 - Exploring Real Self Care10:43 - The Essence of Self-CareThis Week's Challenge: The "Uncomfortable Self-Care" ExperimentIdentify one act of real self-care you've been avoiding because it feels hard. Do it. Notice how different it feels from a bubble bath—and how much more it serves your future self.Connect & Share:Share your "uncomfortable self-care" moments with us @ChoosingHappyPodcastTag someone who needs to hear this messageLeave a review sharing what version of self-care you're ready to let go ofVisit www.choosinghappy.space for more truth-telling episodesSubscribe so you never miss an episode that challenges the status quoHow You Can Support This Independent Podcast:Please like, share with someone who may need to hear this today, and/or leave a review and support the podcast. I really appreciate it.Tired of the same patterns keeping you stuck?Check out the Pattern Breaker Coaching Program: 

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