In this candid Enneagram interview, Kate (SO/SX 7w8 793) discusses her identity as an "entitled brat," her allergy to drudgery and limitation, and her dream (since she was young) of being a "kept woman." She also shares how therapy helped her distinguish between "fun negative" (entertainment) and "real negative" (trauma), allowing her to process difficult emotions rather than "bouncing" away from them. Enjoy.
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Timestamps 
00:00 - Intro 
03:59 - Outlook on what Kate does in life, not tracking self-preservation linearly 
07:03 - Frustration of 7, not ‘hippy dippy’ 
13:22 - “I live in the land of Kate”, Type 7 relationship to freedom, theater of negativity masks "real" negativity 
20:34 - No super-ego; fighting reality 
22:13 - Friendship as a social 7, having fun and dealing with shit, reciprocity 
28:01 - Being a ‘brat’, wanting to be a ‘kept woman’, freedom from ‘have-to’s’ 
33:29 - SP blind 7: no shame in others caring for them
37:31 - Being assertive, getting ‘in trouble’ as a framework 
42:10 - Being loved more than loving 
45:23 - Harry Potter addiction, proxy for SP grounding 
48:31 - Therapy, letting in past hurts, not bouncing out of pain 
55:21 - Seeing memories in new light, somatic connections 
1:09:40 - Outro  
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CREDITS 
Interview by Josh Lavine  
Edited by Kristen Oberly  
Music by Coma-Media from Pixabay  
Coma-Media: https://pixabay.com/users/coma-media-24399569/  
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