#13: Kaisa Jauhiainen (SX/SO 9w8 935) — Hooked or Catatonic, Erotic Releases of Anger, Seeking Essential Harmony through the SX Instinct

08/11/2022 1h 24min
#13: Kaisa Jauhiainen (SX/SO 9w8 935) — Hooked or Catatonic, Erotic Releases of Anger, Seeking Essential Harmony through the SX Instinct

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Episode Synopsis


UPDATE: Kaisa's Heart Fix has been updated from 3w4 to 3w2.
Kaisa is a psychology and neuroscience graduate student and Enneagram enthusiast with an exceptional ability to articulate her experience of being a Sexual 9w8. Enjoy.
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Timestamps
0:00 Intro
2:56 Kaisa's typing
5:10 Flatline (935) vs triple reactive (846) overlay, 9 core withdrawn vs 8 wing assertive + sexual dom need to broadcast self
9:53 SX 9 being hooked by something or catatonic
13:31 "When there's no juice, I go catatonic;" Using sharp objects to keep myself awake at school; Kaisa's flatline delivery of severe subjects
19:11 Head last energy
21:26 How are you feeling right now? (Regrounding, getting back to we-space)
24:33 Body vs head types processing in real-time
26:11 Difficult to rev my own engine, but it gets revved by SX things (SX 9 receptivity)
29:37 SX + double competence; collecting SX resources; eating so I smell good, sensitivity to smells
35:20 SX competency story -- collecting data; fulfilling SP blind needs via SX dom motivations 
42:33 Out of body vs in body experience; re-inhabiting my body -- the 9 growth journey
45:29 Exploring SP blind; not recognizing mortality in our body
49:12 "Assertive" SX pursuit of crush with double withdrawn energy; & the SX/SO targeted magnetism dance
50:50 the urgency of SX dom
54:17 Boundaries & experiencing my distinctness
1:00:28 SX/SO "blurry friendships," different from Social
1:01:57 SX ecstasy, loss of self, now I can die in peace; Seeking "Essential Harmony" through SX
1:12:21 Renewing SX chemistry in stable relationships
1:16:48 Sexual chess; Advice for SX blinds
1:21:34 Closing, final reflections
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