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Listen "#1: Emeka Okorafor (SX/SP 8w7 854) — Typing Others, Not Knowing I'm Being Provocative, Advice for Relationships with 8s"
Episode Synopsis
Emeka Okorafor is a Sexual 8, and he is a world expert in Enneagram typing. He co-runs Enneagrammer.com, co-hosts the Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast and the Dark Arts Academy -- weekly classes where you can watch the Enneagrammer team type a celebrity live.
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The Big Hormone Enneagram Podcast (BHE)
Timestamps: 00:00 Intro to What It's Like To Be You 1:35 Intro to Emeka 6:05 Emeka's Enneagram Origin Story 8:27 Learning as an 8, needing it to be “real," alive; discovering my own type 15:30 "I'm gonna leave a mark on you"; Creating a before and after; "making it happen" 18:27 Ppl getting upset, cutting through bullshit as an 8 teacher, making the Enneagram unignorable 21:40 The inner experience of 8ness right now 25:00 Feeling "separate from my experience" 28:00 "Getting high on my own momentum" 30:07 Inner work for me as an 8: getting in touch with my heart, letting people in, allowing things to happen (not “making” them happen) 36:00 On boundaries, the terror of being violated; the inner circle, "my box" 39:27 8s and Protectiveness 43:00 Instinctual understanding of consequences, intimidation; Having others rely on me while I’m not relying on them 45:42 Not realizing I'm being provocative or pushing people into psychological corners 51:23 #nota4 and why it matters; common delusions in typology circles 55:09 On typing people, and the controversy of telling someone their type; the skill of seeing type 1:02:00 - the wisdom and soul of the 8; making something invisible visible; making it “real” 1:08:44 - Advice for 8s, allowing for things to happen 1:12:00 - Advice if you have an 8 boss, partner, friend, etc; not triggering the “well I didn’t care about this anyway” response 1:20:00 Conclusion & Where to find Emeka
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