Listen "Episode 15: Shadows of Success"
Episode Synopsis
Burnout isn't the root cause—it's just the smoke. The fire underneath? Your identity shadows. The parts of you still running old programming, still chasing approval from the wrong people, still carrying "shoulds" that were never yours. You can fix your calendar, systems, even your client roster. But if you don't deal with the shadows underneath, they'll recreate the same exhaustion in a new form. Jennifer's wake-up call: apologizing for charging the exact rate she had quoted. That's when she realized—this isn't leadership, this is shadow management. The research is stark: • 95% of decisions come from subconscious programming, not conscious strategy • 89% of executive burnout comes from identity misalignment, not workload • "Good girl" programming leads to 43% lower lifetime earnings • Entrepreneurs who don't address shadow patterns are 3.2x more likely to experience chronic burnout The 5 shadows running your business: • Good Girl CEO (says yes to everything, undercharges 34% below market) • Overachiever (burnout disguised as success, stuck at earning ceiling) • Martyr (exhaustion as badge of honor, gives premium work for free) • Chameleon (adapts to everyone, can't charge premium rates) • Perfectionist (nothing's ready to launch, missed opportunities) Each shadow feels like it's helping you succeed, but they're actually draining energy, sabotaging vision, and keeping you tied to rules you never agreed to. Ready to discover which identity mask is secretly running your business decisions? Take the free Identity Mask Quiz and step into the leader who integrates her shadows instead of being controlled by them.
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