In this episode of the Ultimate Men’s Movement, host Dr. Jack Rocco sits down with relationship strategist and DV advocate Cheyenne MDee. Raised in generational domestic violence, Cheyenne broke the cycle, built a national advocacy platform, and now coaches men, women, and couples to repair connection before it escalates into crisis. Her approach is blunt, strategic, fast-moving—and it works.Cheyenne’s Origin StorySurvived multi-generational domestic violence.Became a national DV advocate and co-founded Freedom: The Caliber Way to help survivors leave safely and heal so they don’t return.Realized many “abusers” were not monsters—often partners in relationship breakdowns who snap under disconnection, frustration, and poor skills.DV Is Cyclical—So Is Comfort“We don’t do what we want; we do what we know.”People default to their “thermostat” (comfort zone), even when it’s unhealthy. Coaching must reset that thermostat.Why She Coaches MEN (and then couples)Progress accelerates when the masculine reclaims leadership (not dominance).Healthy masculine energy draws the feminine back into safety, receptivity, and desire.Her process: stabilize the man → re-attract the woman → elevate together.Therapy vs. StrategyTraditional therapy often reopens the same wound (“picking the scab”) and “circles the drain.”Cheyenne delivers playbooks, weekly strategy, and accountability—measurable steps, not endless rehashing.Not ‘Toxic Masculinity’—Toxic MessagingModern extremes: some online feminism shames men; some “patriarchal” circles crush women.Reality: “Equal but not the same.” Both need safety, respect, and aligned roles that fit their home.The ‘Boss Babe’ DetourMany women (30s–40s) rediscover themselves via social feeds that inadvertently sabotage the relationship (“you don’t need a man”).Cheyenne helps couples shift from power struggle → power partnership.Cheyenne’s Coaching StyleNo blame Olympics—results-focused.Direct feedback for both partners (“I’ll tell him and her the truth you’re both avoiding.”)Formats: self-paced playbooks or 1:1 customized coaching (fastest change, highest success).Core FrameworksReset the thermostat (your “normal”).Masculine leadership without crushing her spirit.Rewrite your story: solution-based perspective beats problem loops.Domestic violence prevention starts before crisis—with communication, leadership, and reconnection skills.Men often try to talk; they just haven’t been taught how. Skills > shame.A relationship can’t rise if one partner stays low; elevate first, then invite.Perspective is power: “Rewrite the story you’re telling yourself, and your actions will follow.”TikTok & Instagram: @shy.mdee (search shy mdee)Coaching formats: Self-paced playbooks or 1:1 strategy (men, women, couples)In-person: Events only; coaching delivered virtually (worldwide, English)Website: TheUltimateMensClinic.comLocation: New Bedford, Massachusetts (virtual options available)Men’s Relationships, Domestic Violence Prevention, Masculine Leadership, Feminine Energy, Marriage Coaching, Couples Strategy, Communication Skills, Rewriting Your Story, Trad Wife Debate, Boss Babe Culture, Healthy PartnershipHighlightsKey TakeawaysConnect with Cheyenne MDeeConnect with Dr. Jack Rocco / Ultimate Men’s ClinicSuggested Tags

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