Why 'Good Mom' is the Most Dangerous Label We Wear

18/08/2025 1h 12min Temporada 2 Episodio 129
Why 'Good Mom' is the Most Dangerous Label We Wear

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The "good mom" label is a trap — one that ties our worth to our children's behavior and leaves both mother and child crushed under the weight of impossible expectations. In this powerful conversation, certified transformational life coach, hypnotherapy practitioner, and former early childhood educator Diane Sorensen shares how her daughter's mental health crisis became the wake-up call that shattered her perfectionism, people-pleasing, and emotional burnout. With over 30 years of experience supporting children and families, and as the creator of the Beautiful Behavior podcast and coaching programs, Diane knows the cost of living for approval — and the freedom that comes from shifting from control to connection. We dig into the generational and cultural patterns that keep moms stuck, the difference between approval and love, and why curiosity is the key to raising kids who like themselves. If you've ever felt the crushing pressure to prove your worth as a mother, this episode might just be the permission slip you need to drop it for good. If you're ready to take this shift even deeper, join me inside LEGEND — my 16-week group program where high-achieving women break free from perfectionism, reclaim their energy, and create extraordinary lives that are still allowed to be beautifully messy. We start August 27, and spots are still open. Get all the details here: www.brookejeanllc.com/legend Connect with Diane: Podcast on Spotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/diane-sorensen1 Podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/beautiful-behavior/id1537667173 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dianesorensen.bb/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/diane.sorensen.589 Website: https://www.dianesorensen.net/ Free Gift – Drama to Empowerment Workbook: https://www.dianesorensen.net/drama-to-empowerment Get Unstuck: 5 Therapeutic Steps to Take Aligned Action: https://www.brookejeanllc.com/get-unstuck More on The Unperfected® Pod (all platforms) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...   Follow Brooke on VidMe: www.vidme.io Watch the VidMe Trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmMra9sD7T0 Join VidMe: https://vidme.io/go/BrookeJeanUnperfected   Connect with Brooke Jean: Website: Brooke Jean LLC Facebook: Brooke Jean LinkedIn: Brooke Jean Instagram: @brookejeanunperfected   Episode Chapters: 00:00 – 05:03 How a mental health crisis cracked the "good mom" illusion 05:03 – 14:01 The hidden cost of generational "good girl" rules 14:01 – 28:58 Breaking free from performance-based parenting 28:58 – 37:05 Curiosity over control — the shift that changes everything 37:05 – 49:44 Balancing boundaries and freedom without fear 49:44 – 59:43 Raising kids who actually like themselves 59:43 – End Creating a legacy of love, not pressure  

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