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Listen "The Goal Isn’t to Get Married — It’s to Never Get Divorced"
Episode Synopsis
I just got engaged… to an amazing man.
The kind of love that feels safe, easy, and certain. And it didn’t happen because I got lucky.
It happened because I got regulated.
I got divorced 6 years ago and I can’t count the amount of times people would ask me if I wanted to get married again in the 5 years before I meet Alex..
I would always pause and say “that would be a beautiful thing but the goal is to not get divorced again”
I didn’t want to repeat patterns that came from survival. I wanted to become the kind of woman who felt safe in love because she was safe in herself.
That’s what nervous system regulation does.
It shifts you from anxious → anchored. Reactive → regulated. Performing → peaceful.
So the next chapter of your life doesn’t look better — it feels better.
We’re breaking down how Queen Energy helps you: ✨ Stop confusing chaos for chemistry ✨ Attract emotionally safe love ✨ Communicate without spiraling ✨ Feel calm, grounded, and magnetic in relationships
Because the real win isn’t the ring — it’s the regulation. 👑
The kind of love that feels safe, easy, and certain. And it didn’t happen because I got lucky.
It happened because I got regulated.
I got divorced 6 years ago and I can’t count the amount of times people would ask me if I wanted to get married again in the 5 years before I meet Alex..
I would always pause and say “that would be a beautiful thing but the goal is to not get divorced again”
I didn’t want to repeat patterns that came from survival. I wanted to become the kind of woman who felt safe in love because she was safe in herself.
That’s what nervous system regulation does.
It shifts you from anxious → anchored. Reactive → regulated. Performing → peaceful.
So the next chapter of your life doesn’t look better — it feels better.
We’re breaking down how Queen Energy helps you: ✨ Stop confusing chaos for chemistry ✨ Attract emotionally safe love ✨ Communicate without spiraling ✨ Feel calm, grounded, and magnetic in relationships
Because the real win isn’t the ring — it’s the regulation. 👑
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