Listen "Safety, Softness & The Feminine: What No One Told Us Growing Up"
Episode Synopsis
In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the most misunderstood concepts in the self-development world: feminine energy. Not the aesthetic or performance or the “slow dancing in Bali” imagery we are sold on Instagram, but the real thing.If you grew up being the strong one, the responsible one, the fixer, the achiever, the emotional adult in the room long before you were ready, then softness probably never felt safe.And when softness doesn’t feel safe, the feminine retreats in the background to protect herself.In this conversation, I’m unpacking:why so many of us mistake control, hyper-independence, and over-functioning as strengthwhy feminine energy isn’t something you “learn,” it’s something you rememberhow childhood roles shape the way we love, date, receive, rest, and trustwhy safety, not aesthetics is the foundation of your femininethe real reason emotionally available relationships feel out of reachhow pleasure, rest, and softness reconnect you to your magnetismwhat it looks like to open again without abandoning yourselfIf you’ve ever thought you’re “too much in your masculine,” if you’ve ever shut down your desires, overperformed in relationships, or struggled to trust receiving love and support, this episode will land deeply.This is the truth I wish someone had told me years ago:Your feminine isn’t missing. She’s just waiting for your body to feel safe enough to open.Come listen, soften and remember who you were before life asked you to play tough.Connect with me: IG: @healingwithparul Website: www.parulgupta.com.au Got a question for me?: [email protected]: My Finding Magic in Your Mess affirmation cards are now live. They were birthed in a season that taught me how to surrender and soften. Get yours here 💖: Self-love cards
More episodes of the podcast The Magic Is In Your Mess
My Divorce Was My Awakening
18/07/2025
My Why – The Magic Is In Your Mess
17/07/2025
ZARZA We are Zarza, the prestigious firm behind major projects in information technology.