In this episode of The Crux, Ryan Ginn and Dr. Luke Adler explore how men can share vulnerability in relationships without triggering shame or defensiveness. Prompted by a recent course participant’s experience of feeling shamed after opening up, they discuss the importance of emotional responsibility, maintaining agency when sharing feelings, and avoiding emotional fusion.Ryan shares a personal story of jealousy as his wife prepares for a retreat, modeling how to express vulnerability without projecting it. The conversation highlights how shaming responses can damage connection and stresses the need for mutual agreements that create emotional safety.Drawing on insights from Stan Tatkin, they explore the link between safety, attraction, and compatibility, concluding that one partner’s conscious leadership can shift relationship dynamics. For more, visit beingmen.net.00:00:00 - Introduction to Vulnerability in Relationships00:00:22 - The Challenge of Sharing Vulnerability00:01:17 - Understanding Threat Responses00:02:44 - Fusing with Vulnerable Parts00:04:18 - Personal Example: Jealousy and Vulnerability00:08:28 - Finding the Middle Way00:10:30 - The Importance of Emotional Expression00:12:08 - Navigating Shaming Responses00:14:12 - Establishing Non-Negotiables in Communication00:16:05 - The Role of Safety in Relationships00:17:23 - Confronting Unhealthy Dynamics00:19:49 - The Power of One Partner's Awareness00:22:12 - Leading with Consciousness00:24:09 - Conclusion and Upcoming Programs

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