Parenting is where our deepest patterns rise up, and where the real healing begins.It's also where our nervous systems get stretched, our identities get questioned, and our old coping strategies stop working. For many high-achieving parents, especially those navigating modern relationships, parenting becomes the pressure point that reveals what still needs healing.In this powerful and insightful episode, I sit down with Pat Barber, founder of The Father’s Guild, a community of dads committed to being “harder to kill and easier to love.” Pat is a father of four, a coach with over 20 years of experience helping people build resilience both physically and mentally. But it’s fatherhood that cracked him open to deeper emotional awareness, presence, and the kind of strength that doesn't come from muscle alone.Together we explore the messy, meaningful, and sometimes maddening journey of parenting and modern fatherhood, and how our children can become the most honest mirrors we’ll ever have.You'll hear us explore:Why most models of masculinity fall flat, and the power of the middle groundHow kids reflect our unresolved patterns and why that mattersThe hidden cost of unprocessed trauma and the role of recoveryAnti-fragility and how stress plus rest builds emotional resilienceSmall wins, journaling, and the daily reps of cycle-breakingWhether you're a parent, parenting alongside someone, or healing from your own childhood patterns, this conversation is a powerful reminder that change is possible and connection is a skill we can all learn.Resources & Links:Learn more about Rise into Regulation, the skillset for connection, communication, and nervous system safety in modern marriageFollow Lauren on Instagram @lauren_dryConnect with Pat Barber and The Father’s Guild on Instagram @thefathersguildVisit The Fathers Guild website thefathersguild.comWatch Pat’s videos on YouTube @thefathersguildIf this episode moved you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Leave a review, tag us on socials, or message us to let us know what landed.Big love,Lauren X

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