In this episode we continue an important conversation with Laura, a Certified Somatic Relationship Coach and Board-Certified Sexologist. We'll dive into the complex topics of low desire, erotic aliveness, and communication within relationships. The episode covers everything from the personal beliefs shaping our sexuality to the importance of embodiment and how couples can reconnect with their desires in a safe and open way. Topics covered include:Low Desire Causes: Lara explains that low sexual desire in women often stems from emotional or relational dynamics (intimacy, body connection, unresolved resentment, hormones), not just medical issues.Gender and Desire: Men are more likely to be treated with medications for low desire, while women often receive therapy-focused advice, reflecting societal attitudes toward gender and sexuality.Medication Impact: Medications like antidepressants and conditions such as diabetes can affect libido, but this is often overlooked in medical care.Shame and Sexuality: Societal norms, like purity culture, have shamed women’s sexual desire. Lara stresses the importance of overcoming shame to embrace one's sexuality without judgment.Body Connection: Lara encourages reconnecting with one's body through sensory experiences, which fosters greater erotic awareness and pleasure.Dating Yourself: Katie suggests "dating yourself" for a month to tune into your personal desires, similar to Lara’s approach of reconnecting with needs in daily life.Shame and Taboo: Normalizing shame in sexual exploration creates a safe space for individuals to express their desires, promoting empowerment and acceptance.Core Erotic Desires & Blueprints: Understanding core sexual needs (e.g., being seen or cherished) and erotic blueprints (romantic, kinky, energetic) helps partners communicate and connect better.Fantasies & Boundaries: Exploring fantasies (romantic, kinky, energetic) and setting clear boundaries ensures consensual, empowering sexual exploration. Highlights:The importance of embodiment in reconnecting with desires.The role of belief systems and shame in shaping sexual experiences.A deep dive into exploring erotic desires through core desires and blueprints.A conversation about consent, agency, and the power of boundaries in healthy sexual relationships.And moreThis episode is a powerful reminder that sexual desire is complex and multifaceted. By exploring our beliefs, reconnecting with our bodies, and openly communicating with our partners, we can reignite erotic aliveness and cultivate healthier, more fulfilling relationships.Resources:If you're curious about exploring this topic further, reach out to Lara on Instagram @lara_lark_coaching to help you navigate these conversations For more information about Katie's coaching program, follow and reach out on Instagram @katieostresscoaching Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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