Too Loud, Too Sensitive, Too Quiet, Too Much - Not Enough

01/08/2025 25 min Temporada 2 Episodio 2
 Too Loud, Too Sensitive, Too Quiet, Too Much - Not Enough

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Send us a text🎙️ Episode Summary:In this soul-deep episode, Victoria dives into the tender territory of being labelled as too much or not enough and how those words don’t just bruise the ego, but shape the nervous system.Through a poignant story of a woman who dimmed her light to be accepted, and her own reflections on social masking, freeze responses, and emotional labour, Victoria invites you to reclaim your wholeness without apology.You’ll learn how to recognise the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways your body adapts for safety, and how to gently bring yourself back into regulation and truth, one breath at a time.💡 What You'll Hear:The impact of being told you're “too loud,” “too quiet,” or “not enough”How your nervous system stores these stories and shapes your responsesThe emotional cost of people-pleasing and performanceSimple, trauma-informed tools to regulate your system in real timeA gentle reframe: sensitivity is not a flaw it’s your superpower🛠 In This Episode, Victoria Shares:A personal story of emotional masking and jealousy turned insightA breakdown of the nervous system’s three survival responses (polyvagal theory)How to use breath, touch, grounding, and co-regulation to soothe your systemWhy you must regulate before journaling or reflectingHow to shift from shame to nervous system compassion✨ Inner Compass Reflection:📝 Journaling Prompts:Where did I first learn I was too much — or not enough?What part of me is asking to be honoured now, without editing or shrinking?💌 Links & Mentions → Learn more about my 4-week programme Rise & Reset (founding cohort now enrolling for an 8 week group container starting Sept 2025!): Details here 🔗 Resources & Connect 🎁 Freebies & Work with me 📩 DM Victoria on Instagram @soulto_self Website www.soultoself.co.uk Watch episodes from season 2 on YouTube

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