Do I Have to Hate David Harbour Now?

28/11/2025 50 min
Do I Have to Hate David Harbour Now?

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Episode Synopsis

Stacy and Daynah dive deep into Lily Allen’s surprise divorce album, the internet-meltdown question of “Do I Have to Hate David Harbour Now?” and why pop culture feels so personal when the celebrity in question is someone we’ve all invited into our living rooms via Stranger Things. They discuss the album’s storytelling, the public fascination with Harbour’s alleged behavior, and the broader cultural work of women telling the truth about betrayal.

And because they contain multitudes, you'll also find Beyoncé references, dental anxiety, and all the good-bad TV they're watching.


0:00 | Popcorn upgrades, dental chaos & anxiety

5:00 | Buccaneers, anachronisms & period-piece comfort

10:00 | Lily Allen’s album, David Harbour & the pop-culture spiral

15:00 | Betrayal, storytelling & why this record hits differently

20:00 | Music style, comparisons & where it lands culturally

25:00 | Red flags, negging & the Harbour discourse

30:00 | Gaslighting, boundaries & self-centering

35:00 | Open marriage rules, cheating & accountability

38:00 | Healing arcs, final track reflections

41:00 | What we’re watching next


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