004: How to Feel Your Feelings

12/03/2024 31 min Temporada 1 Episodio 4

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Episode Synopsis

In this episode we begin to explore one of the core aspects of being a human being: our feelings.
As humans, we constantly FEEL. That feeling is a reaction to the external world or our own inner workings & thoughts. The problem is that we don’t always KNOW what the feeling is... let alone how to feel it in a way that doesn’t overwhelm or “destroy” us.
I share a practical approach on how to feel your feelings by first, making a distinction between a feeling and an emotion; and then taking you on an investigation of them individually. 

We also touch upon:

emotional overwhelm
addictions and coping mechanisms as a way to deal with the unfamiliar and “scary” feelings
exploration of your own feelings during the episode itself


Timestamps:

(00:00) Introduction
(00:56) Emotions vs. feelings
(02:21) Feeling is a skill
(04:18) Practical exercise on how to feel your feelings
(06:52) How to control your emotions
(08:39) How to feel happiness
(09:29) How to feel your anxiety
(12:23) How to use meditation as a tool to feel
(14:50) Use language as a tool to feel your feelings
(16:44) Use your body to change your emotions
(20:10) Why people numb their feelings
(21:48) Reminder if your feelings are overwhelming you...
(22:16) Addictions as coping mechanism for hard & scary feelings
(24:45) What happens when you begin to FEEL
(29:52) How to become curious about your feelings even if you're scared of them

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Laura Sagen, host of On Emergence podcast
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