In every close relationship—especially with adult children, in-laws, and spouses—there are moments when you wonder: Should I say something… or just let it go? In this episode of Midlife with Brooke, Brooke Oniki shares a thoughtful, faith-centered framework to help you discern when speaking up builds connection and when staying quiet preserves peace.Brooke walks you through:Three clarifying questions to ask before saying anythingHow to check your motives—are you coming from love, or trying to control?What “emotional cost” means and how to recognize it in your relationshipsWhy the outcome you’re hoping for matters in deciding whether to speak upReal-life stories of conversations that went well—and times when letting it go was the wiser choiceYou’ll also learn clear guidelines for when to speak up—like boundary violations, recurring issues, or when silence is breeding resentment—and when to let it go, such as one-time slip-ups or moments when you’re just seeking reassurance.Brooke offers practical tools like:Journaling to clarify your thoughts (and even imagine the other person’s perspective)Prefacing hard conversations to lower defensivenessCircling back with humility when you wish you’d handled something differentlyReflection Questions:Why do I want to bring this up?What will it cost me emotionally if I say nothing?Is the outcome I’m hoping for realistic?Final Thought:You get to decide the kind of mother, mother-in-law, and wife you want to be. Not everything needs to be said—and when it does, it can be said with love, clarity, and respect.✨ Want to talk through your own “Should I say something?” moment?Schedule a free coaching session with Brooke here: Book Your Call

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