Do you ever finally get a quiet moment to yourself, maybe while your baby naps or your kids are at school… and instead of feeling relaxed, you feel restless, anxious, or even guilty for not being productive?
You’re not broken, love. What you’re experiencing is so common, especially for high-achieving moms. When your nervous system has been wired to equate doing with safety and worthiness, slowing down can feel unsafe, even when you’re exhausted.
In this episode, we’ll talk about why it feels so hard to relax as a mom, and how you can begin to gently rewire your system to know that rest is safe.
In today’s episode, we’re exploring:
✨ Why it feels impossible to relax as a mom
✨ The guilt and anxiety that show up when you stop doing
✨ How achievement and productivity patterns shift in motherhood
✨ Why your nervous system confuses stillness with danger
✨ The “Two Minute Promise” to help you practice rest in small doses
✨ Naming your fear with compassion so you can soften anxiety
✨ Simple body-first practices to teach your system that it’s safe to rest
✨ The “Good Enough Mantra” to remind yourself your worth isn’t tied to productivity
If you’ve ever thought…

“Why can’t I just relax?”
“Why do I feel anxious when I try to rest?”
“I feel guilty when I’m not productive.”

…this episode will help you feel seen, validated, and supported with tools you can actually use.
Resources & Next Steps
💛 If today’s conversation resonated, share it with another mama who might need these words. 💛 Want to go deeper? In the Here With You, Mama program, we gently unwind these patterns with support, compassion, and practical tools for your nervous system.
You can connect with me on Instagram @herewithyoumama or through my website to learn more.
Remember, mama: your worth has never been about what you produce. You are enough, exactly as you are, right now.
 
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