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Hi love. Welcome back to Here With You, Mama.
This is our 20th episode together. Twenty conversations about the raw, real, and sacred transformation that happens when you become a mother.
If you’ve ever felt like you were falling apart in early motherhood, this episode is here to remind you: you’re not falling apart, you’re transforming.
Motherhood isn’t a return to who you were. It’s a total cellular, emotional, and spiritual reorganization of who you’re becoming. From the “chrysalis soup” of postpartum identity loss to the sacred rebirth of your new self, this episode explores the truth about what’s really happening beneath the surface when everything feels like it’s unraveling.
Together, we’ll explore how to honor the grief of your old identity, embrace the sacred mess of becoming, and recognize that every sleepless night, tear, and tender moment is reshaping you into the mother you were always meant to be.
Because you’re not broken. You’re breaking open.
Today’s Episode Highlights:
The sacred psychology of matrescence: why motherhood feels like both an ending and a beginning
What neuroscience reveals about maternal brain rewiring and emotional intensity after birth
How grief, rage, and overwhelm are part of your cellular transformation
The ancient wisdom of the sacred window, and why you can’t “bounce back”
The difference between breaking down and breaking open
Why the mess is the transformation
Tiny rituals to honor your becoming
How to find sisterhood in a culture that glorifies independence
Today’s Takeaways:
You’re not alone. Every mother goes through a version of this transformation.
Your emotions have purpose. Postpartum intensity is a sign of deep rewiring, not failure.
You can’t rush becoming. Growth takes time, space, and gentleness.
The mess is holy. Every hard moment is shaping new strength, depth, and compassion.
You are becoming. You’re not getting your life back, you’re growing a new one.
If you’re ready for deeper support through this sacred transformation, explore the Here With You, Mama Coaching Program: an 8-week IFS-informed journey to help you feel grounded, connected, and emotionally whole through motherhood’s becoming.
Follow @herewithyoumama on Instagram for daily reminders that you’re not alone in this season of transformation
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This is our 20th episode together. Twenty conversations about the raw, real, and sacred transformation that happens when you become a mother.
If you’ve ever felt like you were falling apart in early motherhood, this episode is here to remind you: you’re not falling apart, you’re transforming.
Motherhood isn’t a return to who you were. It’s a total cellular, emotional, and spiritual reorganization of who you’re becoming. From the “chrysalis soup” of postpartum identity loss to the sacred rebirth of your new self, this episode explores the truth about what’s really happening beneath the surface when everything feels like it’s unraveling.
Together, we’ll explore how to honor the grief of your old identity, embrace the sacred mess of becoming, and recognize that every sleepless night, tear, and tender moment is reshaping you into the mother you were always meant to be.
Because you’re not broken. You’re breaking open.
Today’s Episode Highlights:
The sacred psychology of matrescence: why motherhood feels like both an ending and a beginning
What neuroscience reveals about maternal brain rewiring and emotional intensity after birth
How grief, rage, and overwhelm are part of your cellular transformation
The ancient wisdom of the sacred window, and why you can’t “bounce back”
The difference between breaking down and breaking open
Why the mess is the transformation
Tiny rituals to honor your becoming
How to find sisterhood in a culture that glorifies independence
Today’s Takeaways:
You’re not alone. Every mother goes through a version of this transformation.
Your emotions have purpose. Postpartum intensity is a sign of deep rewiring, not failure.
You can’t rush becoming. Growth takes time, space, and gentleness.
The mess is holy. Every hard moment is shaping new strength, depth, and compassion.
You are becoming. You’re not getting your life back, you’re growing a new one.
If you’re ready for deeper support through this sacred transformation, explore the Here With You, Mama Coaching Program: an 8-week IFS-informed journey to help you feel grounded, connected, and emotionally whole through motherhood’s becoming.
Follow @herewithyoumama on Instagram for daily reminders that you’re not alone in this season of transformation
Transcript for this episode
Blog post for this episode
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