How to Build Confidence Without Faking It: Self Esteem and Self Reliance

20/08/2025 9 min Temporada 2 Episodio 5
How to Build Confidence Without Faking It: Self Esteem and Self Reliance

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Confidence isn’t about filters, fake smiles, or pretending you’ve got it all together. Real confidence comes from self reliance, keeping promises to yourself, and backing yourself even when you’re scared.In this episode of Headstraight, we call out the myth of “fake it till you make it” and show you why faking it only leads to burnout. You’ll learn how to build genuine self esteem and emotional confidence by using micro-promises, action-before-confidence, and resilience when things don’t go to plan.This is straight talk for young adults and teens who are done with pretending. We’ll talk about self doubt, the pressures of teen mental health, and how making better choices in small steps creates the kind of trust that lasts.If you’re tired of chasing confidence and ready to build it for real, this episode is your blueprint to stronger, grounded, unshakable belief in yourself.Want the Cheat Sheet? Click the Link or copy and paste the following into your browser: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Y4gPe4xrIGpcmVzZJ86P1EN0NSR-1Cfx/edit?usp=sharing Want to get involved?I’d love to hear from you:Send me a message → headstraight.co.uk/contactLeave me a voice note → headstraight.co.uk/voicemailShare your feedback by leaving a review (it helps more young people find the podcast) → headstraight.co.uk/reviews/newExplore more from Headstraight:Read the blog version of every episode, packed with extra insights on self-sabotage, motivation, resilience, and mental health → headstraight.co.uk/blogFind out more about me, the host, and why I started this podcast → headstraight.co.uk/aboutNeed support right now?If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, or in crisis, visit our Resources pagefor helplines, mental health services, and support options available in the UK and across the world.Click here to view the episode transcript.

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