Listen "S3 Ep #80 - The Mirror Effect: How Your Childhood is Playing Out in Your Relationships (and You Don’t Even Realise It)"
Episode Synopsis
If you keep attracting the same types of people… if your relationships feel one-sided… or if you’re constantly the “strong one” who holds it all together — this episode will hit home.Because it’s not bad luck.It’s programming.In this deep-dive episode, Stacey unpacks how your childhood conditioning and unhealed patterns are quietly shaping your relationships — in love, friendships, and even business.You’ll learn how your nervous system wires safety through familiarity (not happiness), why you keep re-creating old dynamics, and how to finally start breaking those loops.Inside, Stacey shares: ✨ The psychology of why your nervous system repeats familiar emotional patterns. ✨ How the “Protective Self” vs. “Authentic Self” dynamic plays out in everyday relationships. ✨ Real-life examples of how childhood roles (the peacemaker, performer, or caretaker) show up in adulthood. ✨ Powerful reflection prompts and reparenting tools you can use right now to change the way you connect.This isn’t about blame — it’s about awareness, healing, and choosing differently.Because when you see the mirror clearly… you finally have the power to change the reflection.Want to connect?IG - @the_stacey_allison_FB - Stacey AllisonEmail - [email protected]
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