What does it take to have a truly compassionate conversation—one that heals, connects, and even bridges deep divides?In this episode of Compassion in a T-Shirt, I have the great pleasure of speaking with Stephen Andrew—a seasoned therapist, trainer, storyteller, and the warm, wise voice behind the podcast Conversations in Compassion. Based in Portland, Maine, Stephen has spent decades working with people experiencing addiction, mental illness, and trauma, and he brings a deeply compassionate lens to everything he does.Together, we explore what makes a conversation truly compassionate—from the inner skills we cultivate, to the shared space we create between us. Stephen shares his concept of the Tai Chi of Empathy, and we talk about the roles of mindfulness, radical humility, and presence in healing relationships. We also look at how compassion can guide us through difficult conversations, even across divides, and why things like trust, silence, and heartfelt apologies matter more than ever.This conversation is full of insight, humour, and heart—and I hope it brings something meaningful to you too.Links:Stephen Andrew websitehttps://www.hetimaine.org/Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to Compassion in a T-Shirt01:03 Welcoming Stephen Andrew01:26 Defining Compassionate Conversations04:24 The Tai Chi of Empathy06:33 Practicing Radical Humility13:36 The Courage to Embrace Mystery17:52 Empathy as a Healing Practice21:19 Understanding Trauma Injuries30:48 The Power of Compassion and Trust32:00 Understanding Shame, Isolation, and Fear33:53 Creating a Safe and Secure Environment35:16 The Role of Compassion in Healing40:32 Navigating Disagreements with Empathy48:03 The Importance of Silence and Reflection55:48 Practical Steps for Compassionate ConversationsIf you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.ausapress.com/p/the-gifts-of-compassion-how-to-understand-and-overcome-suffering/ Say hi on social: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drstansteindl Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/StanSteindl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr_stan_steindl/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stan-steindl-150a5264/ Website: https://www.stansteindl.com/ YouTube Video URL: https://youtu.be/STYgf6YdkUM *Affiliate Disclaimer: Note this description contains affiliate links that allow you to find the items mentioned in this video and support the channel at no cost to you. While this channel may earn minimal sums when the viewer uses the links, the viewer is in no way obligated to use these links. Thank you for your support! Video hashtags:compassionate communication, motivational interviewing, empathy in practice, trauma-informed care, radical humility, healing relationships

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