How To Want When You Never Learned How

09/06/2025 14 min Temporada 2 Episodio 13

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You’ve done everything right. The career. The family. The checked boxes. But you still feel… unfulfilled. A little numb. Like something’s missing, and you can’t name what.In this episode, we explore what happens when high-achieving women realize they never really learned how to want, they only learned how to please.We’ll unpack why this happens, how it shows up, and what it looks like to gently reconnect with your desire, without guilt, without proof, and without needing to justify it.What You Will Learn:Why high-achieving women often feel unfulfilled, even when life looks “good” on paperHow early conditioning around approval and performance disconnects us from authentic desireThe subtle ways perfectionism and people-pleasing show up in everyday decisionsFour practical strategies to gently rebuild your relationship with wanting, without guilt or justificationHow to begin honoring your preferences in low-stakes moments to restore self-trustWant to Go Deeper Into Your Mindset?Download the Study Guide:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.choosebetterthoughts.com/podcast-study-guide-download⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check My Coach Coaching Program:⁠⁠⁠https://www.choosebetterthoughts.com/⁠⁠⁠Follow Me On:Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/choosebetterthoughts/⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/amandahuffmandoyle/⁠⁠⁠And if you like this episode, don’t forget to follow, subscribe, leave a review or send it to a friend who might need this!You've got this!