Listen "Finding Our Own Way – Gutted by Grief with Susan Sneath"
Episode Synopsis
In this deeply moving episode of Blind Spots, host Gail McDonald sits down with her longtime friend, award-winning actress, and career coach Susan Smith for a raw, heartfelt conversation on navigating the “unfathomable” territory of grief after the loss of a child. Both women share their personal journeys—just months apart—of losing their sons, exploring what it means to grieve with resilience, find meaning in absence, and embrace moments of joy without guilt.Through honest reflection, they discuss the unique and personal nature of grief, the difference between ruminating and reflecting, and the importance of small daily steps toward healing. Together, they offer insights, tools, and resources—from using a “feelings wheel” to noticing daily “glimmers”—that can help others find their own way forward. With tenderness, humor, and deep mutual respect, Gail and Susan show that while there may be no “getting over” grief, there is a way to carry love and loss side by side.Whether you’re grieving yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation is an openhearted reminder: you are not alone, and connection can be a powerful balm.Susan Sneath - Blue Wind CoachingReferences & Resources:Books:Who Dies? by Stephen JenkinsonUnderstanding Your Grief by Alan WolfeltThe Grieving Brain by Mary-Frances O’ConnorEpisodes:The Change Zone – Episode 66: Chris Hartstein on using toys as tools for nonverbal communicationOrganizations:Canadian Mental Health AssociationTools:Feelings Wheel for grief check-ins
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