Understanding the Need for Control

16/07/2025 47 min Episodio 26
Understanding the Need for Control

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Ever find yourself obsessing over every little detail, unable to let go? Join us as we unpack the desire for control and the anxiety that arises when we lose it. From our personal anecdotes to scientific insights, we cover how the need for stability impacts both our mental and physical health. Learn about the crucial role of self-compassion, grounding techniques, and creating effective strategies to manage life’s unpredictabilities. Whether it's overcoming the loss of a loved one or dealing with everyday stressors, gain valuable tools to help navigate life's chaotic journey. Stay tuned for actionable strategies, including recognizing cognitive distortions and the importance of establishing healthy boundaries. Plus, enjoy a few behind-the-scenes laughs and our exciting plans for expanding the podcast community.00:00 Welcome Back and Introduction01:10 Today's Topic: Control and Dysregulation02:26 Understanding Self-Control and Stability04:10 Physical and Mental Reactions to Dysregulation06:01 Personal Stories and Coping Mechanisms09:28 Biological Breakdown: Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic14:25 Emotional Impact and Self-Recognition16:07 Losing Control: Causes and Effects19:58 Life's Unpredictability and Coping Strategies22:29 Personal Loss and Rediscovery24:53 Struggling with Faith and Anger25:02 Forming a Plan for Self-Improvement26:18 Understanding Negative Cognitions31:31 The Importance of Boundaries37:26 Grounding Techniques and Self-Compassion43:21 Podcast Growth and Community EngagementAdditional Resources:Learn more about Anchored in Chaos, contact us, or join the Mind Meld at our website, www.anchoredinchaos.org.Learn more about Genuine Effort at www.genuineeffortllc.com.The environment around us is a swirling vortex of chaos, but you can navigate it when you have an anchor that can keep you steady.  Each episode, Liz Herl dives into data driven strategies and real world tactics with Dr. Tim Caldwell to help you become more grounded and centered in a world that is constantly shifting and changing.  Learn to effectively navigate family strife, career challenges and handle the anxiety of the unknown that the news is constantly bombarding us with. Liz is a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist and Dr. Caldwell is a retired primary care physician and personal trainer.  You can lean on their decades of experience to find stability and peace without having to control circumstances or people around you.  You can be anchored in chaos.This show is part of the ICT Podcast Network