We've all been misunderstood. Hey – Jesus was misunderstood. It's not an easy thing. We have good intentions, perhaps we don't execute those intentions perfectly, but all of a sudden the world falls down on us like a ton of bricks. Now over the last weeks on the program we had a look at the fast, well ... God doesn't always do things quite the way we want him to do. Sometimes we feel like crying out to God, "God! What are you doing? Why are you letting this happen to me? How long, our Lord, how long will this go on?" But you see, God has a plan for your life, for my life. And it's a good plan, a plan of getting up close to Him, a plan of being blessed and being a blessing to others. And yet, sometimes ... sometimes ... life can be awful, life can be really harsh and tough and I'm always conscious when I'm talking about God's blessing that someone's sitting there thinking to themselves, "Well I don't know whose life you're talking about buddy," or "Whose God are you talking about but it's certainly not mine". So this week on the program we're going to have a look at what it means to live the life that God always intended for us even when life's tough, even in the reality of life. We all go through those tough times sometimes, I do and the real question is when the chips are down is God still going to show up? When was the last time that you went through a difficult time in life? Conflict at home, in the family, or sickness or fear or the death of a loved one or loneliness? The list goes on doesn't it? There's not one of us who can't point to something difficult or hurtful in life, even when it looks like on the surface we're doing ok. That's the thing isn't it? When we're doing it tough people look at us on the outside, and you and I are pretty good at pretending that everything's ok and then we live out that lie, we live out that surface existence and the feeling wells up inside, no-one really understands what's going on in my life, nobody knows how I feel, I feel so not understood. I recently went through a tough time with the hours that I had to work, I had several really big things going on at the same time and there was about a four month period when I literally only had three days off. And when you're working seven days a week, twelve to fourteen hours a day, now remember I'm no spring chicken, it's really tough. I love what I do but it was a grind, it was very tiring mentally and emotionally, it was exhausting stuff. Now that season is over but back then I remember going to Church and people would ask me, "How you doing Berni?" And sometimes I'd smile and say, "I'm fine." and other times I'd say, "Well you know, I'm working really long hours and as much as I enjoy what I'm doing with God, it's really tough, I'm finding it hard, it's tough on my wife Jacqui and on our marriage." And more often than not no-one really understood. And when we're at that point, when something is dominating our lives and affecting our lives and it hurts and it's difficult, it's tough when no-one understands us isn't it? Because we really would like someone to understand and we get to the point and we say, "Oh, ok God, tell me, how am I supposed to live the life that you always intended for me, a good life, a blessed life when I'm doing it tough and no-one really understands or worse still, they misunderstand us, they misunderstand our good intentions, they misunderstand who we are?" That's a good question because when we're doing it tough we desperately, desperately need someone to understand us, maybe not to do anything except listen and go, "Hmmm, I understand." But that empathy, knowing that there's someone else who just empathises with us, who is just prepared to sit and to listen and to cry with us through the difficult times is so important isn't it? I remember when I was going through really tough times in my life a decade ago, I was so blessed by a couple, a husba

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