Listen "Finding Parking Lots (for Love)"
Episode Synopsis
The passage of time and the passage of expectations are inversely related. So much of what we hope for slips through the sly slivers of time. What we dreamt of is folded quietly, and put beneath our heads, for us to sleep on in seamless blankness. All exhortations for destinations result only in unspecified directions, and a future rife with its own life. We are rarely given what we desire. But therein lies the universe’s ironic dilemma.
Embedded in the mystery of choices, lies one for us. Not chosen for us, but meant for us. Within the dynamic of what we are, what we think, what we feel, there’s a mysterious algorithm which puts our destiny into place. The underwhelming present of choices and our disappointments at how things seem to be turning out is only a question of a passage of time. For later, much later, we look back and see how things really fitted in. Life’s vicissitudes and our fortunes conspire to gift us a life which we can make something of.
In our desire to seek parking slots in life, we often forget that first there’s a road to transverse. Someone WILL rashly park where we thought we would back in, but going around the block or parking in a No Parking zone has its frustrations but also its own zen charm or delicious mischief. Once we make the choice, or one is made for us, leave aside parking lots, our need for cars will disappear by itself. For we would know the secret of levitation.
If you liked this poem, consider listening to these other poems on questions relating to the meaning of love and life -
On Some Additions to Introspective Psychology
Of Bodies in Bed & Uncertain Joys
Favourite People (Who We Love & Leave)
Follow me on Instagram at @sunilgivesup.
Get in touch with me on [email protected]
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The details of the music used in this episode are as follows -
Music: New Sky by Rafael Krux
Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/5693-new-sky
License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
Artist website: https://www.orchestralis.net/
Embedded in the mystery of choices, lies one for us. Not chosen for us, but meant for us. Within the dynamic of what we are, what we think, what we feel, there’s a mysterious algorithm which puts our destiny into place. The underwhelming present of choices and our disappointments at how things seem to be turning out is only a question of a passage of time. For later, much later, we look back and see how things really fitted in. Life’s vicissitudes and our fortunes conspire to gift us a life which we can make something of.
In our desire to seek parking slots in life, we often forget that first there’s a road to transverse. Someone WILL rashly park where we thought we would back in, but going around the block or parking in a No Parking zone has its frustrations but also its own zen charm or delicious mischief. Once we make the choice, or one is made for us, leave aside parking lots, our need for cars will disappear by itself. For we would know the secret of levitation.
If you liked this poem, consider listening to these other poems on questions relating to the meaning of love and life -
On Some Additions to Introspective Psychology
Of Bodies in Bed & Uncertain Joys
Favourite People (Who We Love & Leave)
Follow me on Instagram at @sunilgivesup.
Get in touch with me on [email protected]
Subscribe to my incandescent and poetic newsletter The Uncuts here - https://theuncuts.substack.com.
The details of the music used in this episode are as follows -
Music: New Sky by Rafael Krux
Free download: https://filmmusic.io/song/5693-new-sky
License (CC BY 4.0): https://filmmusic.io/standard-license
Artist website: https://www.orchestralis.net/
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