Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.In today’s episode, we’re talking about changing your relationship with hard work and productivity, because so many high-achieving women are obsessed with being productive, addicted to “hard,” and secretly terrified of slowing down.This episode was sparked by Derek’s company gala, where presenter after presenter justified awards by highlighting how hard people worked, how much they sacrificed, and how much they suffered. And it hit me: we have been conditioned to believe hard work equals worthiness. Which means when something gets easier, we feel like it does not count. We feel like we cheated. We feel like we do not deserve it.In this episode, we cover:Why the word hard can hijack your identity and train you to earn your success through sufferingHow high-achieving women develop guilt around rest, stillness, and taking care of themselvesWhy our culture distrusts ease, judges support, and vilifies people who seem to have it easierThe nervous system reason you cannot sit still, and why rest can feel unsafe in your bodyThe 4-step process to reprogram this pattern: awareness and ownership, nervous system regulation, rewriting the story, and identity workThis episode isn’t just about productivity. It’s about the deeper wound underneath it: the belief that you have to earn your right to exist, and that ease is not safe.Watch now and learn how to:Recognize where you are using busyness to prove your worthStart regulating your nervous system so slowing down stops feeling like a threatRewrite the story that says hard work is the only path to resultsChoose a new identity that creates success with intention, self-trust, and easeIf you want to do something with this episode, not just listen and go back to the same patterns, I want to invite you into Create 2026.Create 2026 is a private 60-minute session with me, plus the Create 2026 workbook and the audio teaching on how to use it. It’s $197 and there are 30 spots.Book your Create 2026 session - https://buy.stripe.com/28E00i5k81Iw2gZ3zx8bS0h⁠If this episode resonates with you, hit the like button, subscribe to the channel, and share it with a friend who needs it.Everything you need to know about how to work together and to book a complimentary Self Discovery call:https://linktr.ee/ryanngillenConnect with me here:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryanngillenofficialInstagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ryanngillen⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/ryann.dowdy/⁠LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanndowdy/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RyannGillenofficial⁠

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