Nothing Went As Planned (And I Wouldn’t Change a Thing)

17/11/2025 32 min

Listen "Nothing Went As Planned (And I Wouldn’t Change a Thing) "

Episode Synopsis

Welcome back to The Uncensored Self Podcast.Today I’m sharing some real, end-of-year reflections: on time, on failure, on bankruptcy and divorce, on building an entirely new brand in 12 months, and on why none of it is a tragedy. This episode is a reclamation of my story and an invitation for you to rewrite yours, too. We look at how every challenge becomes a tool, how manifestation is really about identity (not effort), and how healing my relationship with feminine and masculine energy changed everything in my life and business.In this episode, we cover:How I used to measure every year by one metric: did I hit the goal or notThe origin story behind The Uncensored Self and what has been created in just 12 monthsReframing bankruptcy, business divorce, and divorce from shame and failure into tools and preparationWhy the story you tell about your past dictates the life you live nowThe shift from “How do I get what I don’t have” to “Who is the woman who already has it”A real client example of becoming the woman whose life reflects the energy she chose, not what she chasedHealing deep, unhelpful beliefs about men and masculine energy and how a healthy partnership can act like a cheat codeWhat’s next for Business Therapy and how it bridges logic and energy, strategy and soulThis episode isn’t just about reflecting on 2025, it’s about reclaiming your story, seeing every challenge as a tool, and choosing to become the woman you’re proud of, regardless of what did or didn’t go “to plan.”Watch now and learn how to:Rewrite the story of your past so it equips you instead of disqualifies youStop manifesting from lack and start creating from identity and fullnessPrepave your energy before sales calls, content, and conversations so you lead instead of reactSee your relationships, money, business, and “failures” through a lens that actually supports where you’re goingDecide what the end of this year means for you, instead of letting metrics alone define itIf this episode resonates with you, hit the like button, subscribe to the channel, and share it with a friend who needs it.Everything you need to know about how to work together and to book a complimentary Self Discovery call:https://linktr.ee/ryanngillenConnect with me here:TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryanngillenofficialInstagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/ryanngillen⁠Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/ryann.dowdy/⁠LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/ryanndowdy/⁠YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RyannGillenofficial⁠