Episode 35: Selfish, Selfless, Oneness

07/11/2025 1h 0min Temporada 1 Episodio 35

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In this episode, Bill and Marty discuss about the intricate balance between being selfish and selfless. They discuss the concept of 'wise selfishness,' a theory introduced by the Dalai Lama, and how it exposes the false binary between self-interest and altruism. The conversation touches on personal anecdotes, philosophical insights, and real-world examples, ultimately leading to a profound exploration of connection, unity, and what it truly means to be 'self.' Chapters:00:00 Welcome to the True You Podcast00:16 Introducing Bill Tierney and His Coaching Philosophy01:30 The Tension Between Selfishness and Selflessness05:43 Exploring Wise Selfishness with the Dalai Lama09:01 A Personal Story of Generosity11:37 The Unity of Self and the Universe25:52 The Impact of the Pandemic on Our Connections33:09 Struggling with the Concept of Oneness34:28 Interdependence vs. Oneness36:28 Experiences of Oneness37:40 Energetic Connections44:23 Unity in a Divided World54:10 Personal Reflections and Coaching58:25 Concluding Thoughts on OnenessLinks and Resources:• True You Podcast Facebook Page - ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/trueyoupodcast⁠⁠ • If you would like to be a guest on the True You podcast, please complete this guest application: ⁠⁠https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbHITeLbAD98TRhFPZzK2kStuHos5HFjOGBWAaTJjgVcEAGA/viewform⁠⁠  • Internal Family Systems - ⁠⁠https://ifs-institute.com/⁠⁠ • Compassionate Results Coaching - ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/⁠⁠ • Bill’s book, ‘Compassionate Results Guidebook’ - ⁠⁠https://compassionateresultsguidebook.com⁠⁠ • ‘Listening is the Key', Dr. Kettelhut’s website - ⁠⁠https://www.listeningisthekey.com/⁠⁠ • Marty’s new book, ‘Leadership as Relation’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3KKkCZO⁠⁠ • Marty’s earlier book, ‘Listen… Till You Disappear’ - ⁠⁠https://amzn.to/3XmoiZd⁠⁠ • Parts Work Practice - Free IFS Practice Group Sessions - ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com⁠⁠ • Contact Marty - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠• Contact Bill - ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠🔗 Compassionate Results Coaching links: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/links⁠⁠➡️ To learn more about the Internal Family Systems Model, visit ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/about-ifs⁠⁠ ➡️Join the Parts Work Practice Facebook group: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/partsworkpractice⁠⁠🔗 Parts Work Practice page: ⁠⁠https://www.partsworkpractice.com/⁠⁠📖 Get the Compassionate Results Guidebook here: ⁠⁠http://compassionateresultsguidebook.com/⁠⁠➡️Attend IFS Coaching Groups: ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/coaching-groups⁠⁠📞Take the Coaching Readiness Assessment, go to ⁠⁠https://www.compassionateresultscoaching.com/contact⁠⁠🎙️Listen to True You Podcast at ⁠⁠https://trueyoupodcast.com⁠⁠ available on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube! #recovery #ifs #internalfamilysystems #ifscoach #ifscoaching #ifsmodel #partswork #partsworkcoach #podcast #ifspodcast #selfhelf #selfimprovement #leadership #richardschwartz #groupcoaching #ifsgroups #compassionateresults