Before we sit our kids down for a “we need to talk” moment, there’s a lot to sort through in our own heads and hearts. In this episode, Athena and Mims get real about why timing, tone, and intent matter just as much as the actual words we say.Drawing from work performance cycles, adoption and bonus-parenting journeys, and sideline moments as sports moms, they unpack how to plan feedback that builds your child up instead of breaking them down.In This Episode, We Talk About:🕰️ Picking the right time and placeWhy “in the heat of the moment” is usually the worst time to give feedback at home.🎯 Being specific, not vague or harshNaming the what and why (“what happened” + “why it matters”) so kids understand, not just feel attacked.💪 Focusing on effort, not perfectionBalancing praise and growth areas so kids don’t walk away thinking they are always wrong or “never enough.”❓ Inviting reflection instead of lecturingAsking questions like, “What do you think went well?” and “What would you change next time?” instead of running a one-way critique.🎚️ Checking your tone and triggersNoticing when your own fears, history, or pet peeves are driving the conversation—and how to neutralize your tone.🧠 Considering age and emotional developmentWhy feedback for an eight-year-old, a teen, and a bonus child in a blended family cannot look the same.🌱 Ending with encouragementMaking sure your child leaves feeling seen, loved, and capable of growth—not defined by their mistakes.DM @TornMLB on IG/FB/X or email [email protected]💜 Choose Grace, Torn Tribe! 💜

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