007: why we always want what we don't have || psychology of desire, fear of missing out, consumerism, life satisfaction

27/10/2025 23 min
007: why we always want what we don't have || psychology of desire, fear of missing out, consumerism, life satisfaction

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Things We Say in Therapy is the podcast that dives into the quiet corners of mental health no one talks about—but everyone experiences. In this episode we dive into why we always want what we don't have; why we're constantly chasing things that we think are going to make our lives better, only for that feeling of novelty to fizzle out a week later. We talk the psychology of desire and the desire cycle, fear of missing out (FOMO), why we are taught that buying more things will make us happy and how internal growth and gratitude will ultimately change this cycle. Please see the links below to support the show!If you are struggling with your health, please don't go through it alone: international mental health helpline directoryLink to study about mental subtraction: https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2Fa0013316Linktree: https://linktr.ee/thingswesayintherapy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thingswesayintherapy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thingswesayintherapy?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc RSS Feed: https://thingswesayintherapy.buzzsprout.com Buy Me a Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/thingswesayintherapyListen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7787IPLPtoQLeciDirI0b6?si=c6dc18f0a0b746b3 Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/things-we-say-in-therapy/id1839858193 Listen on iHeartRadio: https://iheart.com/podcast/294287262/ Support the showStay up to date with this show :) Instagram: @thingswesayintherapy TikTok: @thingswesayintherapy YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thingswesayintherapypodcast?si=kHb247x-bAQikHe7 Follow along on all the Things We Say in Therapy socials! https://linktr.ee/thingswesayintherapy

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